No, well, which of the girls does not dream about a goodhusband? No doubt, there are a lot of free women, excellently feeling and without a stamp in the passport. But who knows how they would react to the absence of this stamp, get to them an excellent candidate for life companions. It is likely that they would try to make a mark on a certain page of their document. Just while this candidate was not found. Most of the young ladies sleep and see themselves next to a family man, who should be a support for his wife and children. Ladies, looking for only tight purses, we do not take into account. These qualities of the character of a man are indifferent. If only he had a bank account with several zeros. The rest poboku. We are now talking about women, for whom it is vitally important to decide how to choose a good husband. Yes, a couple of centuries ago it was easier with this case. There was a lady at the ball, and there worthy suitors - a dime a dozen. About each of them the society was sufficiently informed, and to jump out to marry a rake, a scoundrel, a greedy person or a tyrant could only be a too frivolous or unused person. There were, of course, cases when a woman "I want-I do not want" was not considered, and the marriage was against the will of the young lady. Today, fortunately, this is rare. But quite often you can spoil your life by choosing a man for marriage from a variety of low-quality specimens of the opposite sex. So where then is it better to look for it, this carrier of the highest family test, and how should it be?
Where and how to choose a good husband
In fact, you can find a good husband anywhere. But how lucky it is. And luck is a capricious and unpredictable thing. At someone it literally turns under the feet, and someone does not turn up very often. So we will not hope for luck. It is better to try to outline the circle of places where the bachelors who are able to form a worthy party are most often mistaken.
Looking for someone who can be wonderfulspouse and a good father, it is possible through friends and acquaintances, at work and even in night clubs. There is an opinion that in such institutions only different kinds of burning are hanging out. This is not quite true. There are clubs in which a rather decent audience gathers. That is, progressive, creative, sensible people, while resting and discussing some pressing issues. In order to get into this kind of society, you just need to choose the right institution. Well, well, we are more or less determined where the worthy titles of the husband are bachelors. But by what criteria to determine if the gentleman is suitable for family life or is it better to look for someone better?
Signs that a man can become a wonderful husband
We often fall into the trap, guided bychoosing a life partner only for one's own feelings. No doubt, any girl wants to marry a loved one. But, alas, the reality proves that marriages for love are rarely successful and strong. Because when emotions are raging, the mind is silent. And we simply ignore the alarming signs that a person is not suitable for family life. It is understandable. In the euphoria of falling in love, you do not want to darken your condition with a pragmatic approach to the qualities of a partner. But if we really intend to create a completely prosperous alliance, if you want, you do not want to, and let the rose-colored glasses with difficulty, but you'll have to take off. So that you can not eat your elbows, regretting your own frivolity and short-sightedness. So, what are the main signs that a man can become a good husband?
You can still argue for a long time about what should bebe signs of who among the bachelors in the future will become a good husband. However, there is in all this one significant nuance. Some generally good guys just do not have an idea about the requirements of marriage. They relate to family life, based on the extensive concepts of it. There are even young people who are sure that marriage should not change anything in their life. And when it does change, or do not know how to behave, or try to get rid of this unexpected state. And get rid of in different ways. Someone goes into a spree, and someone generally escapes from the family. Therefore, the task of the girl who says to herself: "I want a good husband!", Not so much to find it, how many to mold for myself. What is the essence of creating a life partner?
How to make a man of the best husband
That the husband was really good, it's not enough to have a littlesuitable for this role of the groom. Even the best workpiece can make an ugly defective product. And with men. If you do not own the art of correct influence on them, the probability is high that a person will begin to resist, even destroying himself. Of course, there is no need to speak about any favorable atmosphere in the family. What is this art of influence on the spouse? First of all, in understanding of when it is necessary to exercise firmness, and when it is necessary to make concessions to it. And how you need to convince your husband something. Someone needs a strong perseverance from the woman, and someone - a soft, at times compassionate approach. The ambition of a man must be able to warm up, simultaneously developing in him respect for himself, and not destroy. And then he will certainly want to become better and make every effort. A close, hysterical, quarrelsome wife will never achieve such an effect. In a word, a good husband should not be sought, but done. He - not a gift of fate, but the result of painstaking work of his half. Only this work should be such that the loved one does not even know about it. Let him save his face, delicately altering in his own way certain qualities and tactfully directing him to the desired path of development. Let him think that he makes the right decisions. And then the man, in the end, will really learn how to take them. We advise you to read: