What kind of women are men's wives in reality

They say that it is impossible to understand women.Men, they say, are more predictable and logical in their actions. Nevertheless, we still cannot determine exactly what kind of women men choose as wives. And what do the representatives of the stronger sex really need from us. Sometimes you look - and she is a beauty, and a housewife, and not lazy, and ready to faithfully love until the grave, but for some reason she is not particularly in demand by them. Well, it would seem, what else is needed? Take such a woman as a wife, you will always have a delicious dinner, a clean bed, ironed fresh shirts and other delights of everyday life. Logical? Of course! But for some reason they are reluctant to take. And if they do take, then they run to the left or are always running away from home either to work or to go fishing. But around some obstinate, too free lady, for whom household chores are the fifth thing, a swarm of contenders for her hand and heart swarm. What is going on? After all, it is clear in advance that she will not become a good wife. Let's try to figure it out?

Who do men want?

So, who do our men choose as their life partners? They claim that in women - candidates for the role of wife - they value:

Independence. Well, that's clear.The stronger sex does not like to act as a nanny. It is much easier to live when the wife is able to deal with her personal problems herself, rather than dump them on her husband. There is a ton of work to do! Men have no time to deal with women's problems. Moreover, these problems, from a man's point of view, are sheer nonsense. It is quite possible to ignore them altogether - they will disappear on their own. And a helpless wife will cry over every petty problem and pester - help, help! And you will have to drop everything and help. No, it is better to have an independent spouse. Such a lady will be able to solve her own problems, and will pull her husband out of an unpleasant situation, if necessary;

Intelligence. The statement is doubtful. Probably, the male half of humanity in this case means that the female mental abilities must exceed the mental abilities of the chicken. But not too much. It will be enough to have something to talk about with your wife. Too smart wife usually annoying and annoying. He'll start talking about Fermat's theorem or the Egyptian economy at dinner, and the lunch is gone! So intelligence is intelligence, but everything must have boundaries. Let it be smart, but not very;

External appeal. Well, this is not worth discussing. All men want to see near the enchantress, with whom not ashamed to appear in society. Well, at home to look good, and not shalala from the room to the room shabby and in a washed dressing gown. A woman should always be charming, and a point! However, the charm does not bother us in general. So here it is necessary to listen to the male opinion;

Respect for a man. It means the ability of a woman to respectfully listen to his opinion and not argue, even if it does not like it. Well, and tactful behavior in relations with the faithful and an expression of respect for him in society. That is, we should always be courteous and correct. Even if your worst half changes, it's rude and shambles somewhere all night. No comments;

Unobtrusive and democratic. In other words, a woman should not tell a man what and how much he has, when and where to walk, what to do and so on. With this, perhaps, you can agree. Let them have their own interests and enjoy freedom. But this does not limit our freedom. You think, my wife stayed with her friends all day and did not cook dinner! My husband yesterday also in the casino stuck up to three o'clock in the morning and lost almost all of his salary. Everyone has their own interests. And you can have supper and sandwiches;

Delicacy and wisdom in communication with a man.It is expressed in the absence of reproaches and inappropriate reminders of responsibilities. There is no need to regularly tell a man that he needs to take out the trash or throw a dirty shirt in the wash. You should not ask him to call when he is late and reproach him for forgetting about the wedding anniversary. Representatives of the stronger sex have other, global tasks. They have no time for empty calls and remembering all the dates. Didn't come home from work on time? That means it has to be that way. Forgot about your mother-in-law's birthday? Your head is occupied with world problems. However, if your loved one shows up in the morning, and his other half wisely and delicately does not ask where this misunderstanding took place, he may well be upset - was his wife not worried at all? It turns out that she is indifferent to her faithful;

Sexuality. Oh yeah! Sexuality is great. The main thing in this matter is to know exactly what and when a spouse is required. And do not molest in one underwear or without it, when he came tired, ate or watching football. Everything has its time. The most important thing is to forget that the head hurts, even if it actually hurts. And that after a hard working day, running around the shops and preparing a delicious dinner of forces for sex is no more. Wished husband intima? Live in bed! The desires of a man must be satisfied. It will not go in search of the one who does not suffer from headaches;

The ability to get along with the parents of a man and hisfriends. This means that a woman must know how to please her mother-in-law and patiently listen to the stories of the father-in-law about the exploits of youth for the fiftieth time. And my friend's friends are friendly and respectful. Even if he endlessly disappears with them in the sauna or fishing. Men are the same! That's only respect and friendliness should have boundaries. Otherwise, friends can decide that they are tempted and inadvertently tempted. And it's her fault. The woman is the same;

The ability to inspire a man to greataccomplishments. It is that a woman is convinced of the exclusivity of a man and demonstrates this by all her behavior. Well, let him lazy and does not like to show initiative in anything. Exclusive, and that's it. Give him an incentive - the mountains will turn! "Stimulus" should be submitted by the wife silently, without reproaches, with one enthusiastic appearance. And then the road will cease to carry the mountains and again collapses on the sofa.

This is roughly what the basic requirements look likeбольшей части мужчин к своим будущим жёнам. Собственно, ничего сверхъестественного в них нет. И многие из представительниц слабого пола без труда развили бы в себе необходимые для счастливого замужества качества. Так как женщина выбирает мужчину для комфорта всей будущей семьи, а не только для себя. И готова ради этого измениться, насколько возможно. Если бы всё было именно так, как заявляют мужчины. В действительности же одинокими и несчастными почему-то бывают именно те, кто максимально соответствует большинству вышеописанных требований. Исключением будет разве что сексуальность и независимость. Да и то в определённых границах. Потому что чересчур сексуальная жена может утомить или вызвать подозрения в неверности, а слишком независимая – бесить своей самостоятельностью в решениях. В женском обществе бытует мнение, что длительные отношения у мужчин складываются либо с ангелочками, либо со стервами. Но кто такие ангелочки? Это покорные хозяйственные жёны, способные костьми лечь, только бы благоверному было хорошо. Они предсказуемы, надёжны, добры, ласковы и нежны. Однако при этом обычно забывают о себе и своём развитии. Итог – большинству мужчин с ангелочками просто становится скучно, и они изменяют благоверным без зазрения совести. Что касается стерв, то они и скука – вещи несовместимые. Чрезвычайно независимые, загадочные, уверенные в себе, сексапильные, они сражают представителей сильного пола наповал. Опытные манипуляторы и превосходные психологи, истинные стервы без труда управляют мужчинами, играя на их инстинктах. Их кредо – холодный эгоистичный расчёт и собственная выгода. Почему мужчины, даже понимая это, всё же теряют голову из-за стерв и готовы положить к их ногам весь мир? Потому что отношения с ними отличаются яркостью, многогранностью и непредсказуемостью. Никогда не знаешь, что выкинет стерва, поэтому с ней не соскучишься. Тем не менее, стерв бросают ничуть не реже, чем ангелочков. Однажды мужчины прозревают и начинают осознавать, что душевного тепла тут не дождёшься, а искренних чувств и в помине нет. И не будет. Настоящая стерва не способна что-то отдавать. Она умеет только брать, удовлетворяя собственные потребности. Провести всю жизнь рядом с такой женщиной означает добровольно приговорить себя к вечной каторге. Сделать кого-то действительно счастливым она не может. Стерва способна пробудить страсть, неодолимое сексуальное желание, но и только. Так каких женщин в жены выбирают мужчины уверенно и охотно? С кем они мечтают связать судьбу до конца дней? С теми, кто способен любить, тонко чувствовать и, долго не размышляя, придти на помощь. Кто радуется жизни и не считает, что отказ от себя – удел любой жены. Это обаятельная и позитивная женщина, наделенная природной мудростью. Она игрива, кокетлива, загадочна, сексапильна, но не аморальна. Такая женщина, словно звёздочка, сияет внутренним светом. Рядом с ней всем становится теплей и спокойней. Рядом с ней мужчине всегда интересно и совсем не хочется убивать время в казино или за бутылкой. У него нет желания допоздна торчать на работе и ложиться в постель с другой дамой. Таких женщин не бросают, потому что они щедро дарят счастье. Самое интересное, что подобные качества есть в каждой из нас. И развить их – наша основная задача. Иначе семейного счастья не видать. Советуем почитать: