No wonder they say that you can not order your heart ... It's notalways asks us about some moral values when ignited by love for a man, and it happens that the feelings of a woman are directed at someone who is already married. And when this happens - or has already happened - with you, you will want to know how you act and what to find ways to harm yourself as much as possible, and as much as possible for the man. There are ways by which you can forget your loved one, once you fully acknowledge that he is not free and can not share your love in full. And it does not matter how strong his feelings can be. It does not matter that he brings to your life a sea of romance and says such things, from which you feel yourself in the seventh heaven of happiness. All this does not matter, because he is married, he has a family where he is loved and in need of it. And to give you, he can only a small part of his attention and time, and not all his immense love and devotion, as it would be in another situation. Unfortunately, there are not so few women who are desperately in love with a married man. And no matter how much their friends and relatives say to them, they say, forget it, you're just a razluchnitsa, they do not always want to do this. Some women remain in this relationship, because the "unaffordable" man helps them financially. Such, however, not very much; and who knows, is it always about love? Others can not leave a loved one, but married, because they subconsciously do not want to make a commitment that would impose a real marriage on them, so they are satisfied that they can be given an affair with a non-free man. Still others themselves are married, but they do not want to change anything and lose the comfort and security that they have with their own husband, though not loved, but reliable. The fourth sincerely believe that their married beloved in the family is not so smooth, he is deeply unhappy and will necessarily go to his beloved, that only his wife will recover after a serious illness or helpless little children will grow up a little ... If you still want to stop loving and forget your man, that is, a few things that you must do. Let's talk about this! 
Why a relationship with a married man is a disaster for you
Yes, you can hear a lot of arguments about how,why meeting a married man may not be so bad. But you have to be honest with yourself - the bad is still much more than good. And if you do not yet know how to forget your married man and leave him alone (or rather, leave him to his wife, because he said that he allegedly has obligations to her, and therefore could not leave) if you are "stuck" in such relationships or feel that you are about to get into a new "adventure", then stop and consider the following facts:
We have every reason to assert that eventswill go exactly on this scenario, because it's a well-known fact - men almost never leave families to their mistresses. If this happens, it is very rare and not for long, and soon they return to their legal spouses. And the wives, as you know, almost never refuse to admit the prodigal husband into the house. They, in fact, have children in common, and property is co-acquired. We hope that we were able to convince you that the best thing you can do for yourself is to forget the man, the beloved, but married. 
How can I forget it?
Think, please, how much you love yourselfyourself? Do you love yourself enough to take those rare hours and minutes that your married lover can offer you? And how much do you respect yourself if you agree to be content with crumbs from someone else's table? If it suits you - well, then think about whether you want to have a relationship covered by condemnation and even disgrace, or would you prefer to have a lasting and free relationship that would last your whole life? This is in the first place. Secondly, you must put yourself in the shoes of his wife. How do you think she feels if she knows about the betrayal of her husband? And is she really such a megger as her man draws? In any case, you should understand that in all disagreements in family relationships, both husband and not one are to blame. And your married lover, too, is not at all an innocent victim of a witch-wife! In addition, you should ask yourself: if even your married man by some miracle left his wife to you, how long will it take before he changes you? Can you really trust him? And if you can not trust, then there is no real love either. And there is only an obsession. And you have to have the courage to admit it. To stop loving and soon to forget a married man, you do not need a magic lapel potion. You will need to change your mind, change attitudes. You should be prepared for the fact that, having felt something wrong, your man will become more active and start making attempts to reanimate the relationship. The truth is that only you are in control of your life. You have the right to say no. You have the right to reject all his phone calls. You can even leave work, especially if you have an affair with a married colleague or boss. You have everything to keep the situation under control. You can find all sorts of excuses why you are still with him, but you have the strength to turn your back on him forever and forget if you just want it. As for the novel at work, you should remember that in most cases such novels are not serious for men. Rather, they go for this in order to dispel boredom in the workplace. And very often they do it in order to win the fame of a macho who managed to win another vulnerable young lady. This is especially true if a woman works in a team dominated by men. If you want to forget your love, you will have to be determined. To help you, we picked up some tips to help get rid of this love:
- Do not forget that he will be able to change you just as he betrayed his wife. Probably, you hardly want to experience betrayal and betrayal, and you do not deserve to go through it.
- The main thing to understand is that it is not ideala person for you. You must believe that the best is yet to come, and you will certainly meet your beloved man, for whom you will be the only one. Do not you think that this is an impossible dream. Remember that our brain is accustomed to perceive as truth the often repetitive thoughts. You've probably heard an expression that claims that the often-repeated lie eventually becomes the truth? Well, then believe in your dream!
- Clean your computer, phone and your ownmemory of all the pleasant memories of him. In this case, preference is given to give bad memories. Better yet, to destroy everything that might be indicative of the existence of this connection.
- Avoid anything that might remind you ofthis person: the places where you were together, the movie that you saw together, the pictures where he hugs you and smiles. If you have common acquaintances, try to avoid contacting them for a while while you are experiencing the most critical period. Of course, do not rend a good friendship just because a person is a relative or close friend of your ex-man; but at this stage all you need is to hear nothing and not know about it.
- Destroy all the gifts that he, perhaps,gave you They will involuntarily return you to the memories of happy moments spent with your loved one and you will feel pain again and again. Therefore, either return them to the man, or give it to someone with whom you usually do not have contacts so that you will never see these items again. Or just throw them away.
- Make a reshuffle in your apartment, bythe opportunity to make some changes to the interior Thus, you will not only remove all possible "evidence" of staying in your former lover's home, but also adjust yourself to the fact that you are starting a new stage of life. Be in places where you have never been, meet new people, start new interests and hobbies. All this will help you to get distracted from sad thoughts and make you forget about the old life. At some point you yourself will be surprised, realizing that your love has weakened or even even ended. To make this happen faster, try constantly to be occupied with some sort of business.
- Do not regret that "this man" forcedyou lose a lot of time Everything in life happens for a reason, and the love of a married man has enriched you with new facets of life experience. It was not a wasted time; it was a relationship that existed and ended. They left to give a place for a new love, which you undoubtedly deserve
- If at some point this is very desirable, thenAllow yourself to cry But only for a while, at the beginning, when you are still really very hard and hurt. But then raise your head, find the strength to follow our advice and try to become happy, beautiful and free, doing only what you really like. Your happiness can not depend on anyone other than yourself!
Love for a married man becomes hopelessin its very beginning. And you do not have any good reasons to stay with him further. As his mistress, you become an accomplice to deceit in relation to his wife. You can not force him to destroy the marriage, because you will consider yourself guilty before him and his family, and he will blame you for it. And most importantly, you spend your youth, your life and your love on someone who is able to say that you are the best thing in his life, but he will never give you that love and respect that you deserve. Think about all this, and you will understand that you must direct your love, attention and energy to someone else who can make you really happy - without any reservations and looking back! We advise you to read:
