Raising a child is very difficult.This is a difficult process that requires a competent approach. Often you can hear phrases like this from many mothers: “What a naughty child you are! We need to take up your upbringing!” Although at this point they do not even understand that this task is impossible. Why? Because you need to start raising a child from his birth, and not try to do it when there are already fruits of the absence of this very bad upbringing. It is known that character traits, personal qualities are laid down before the age of five. Only the family determines what kind of person the child will grow up to be. Parents always face the task of instilling kindness, politeness, the desire to help those in need, obedience and many other positive qualities in their baby. How to do it correctly and, most importantly, in what way? In fact, one recipe for all parents simply does not exist. Everything depends on the individual characteristics of the baby and his father and mother. However, there are a number of basic rules that must be followed every day. It is also important to reconsider communication within the family. If mom and dad do not respect each other, argue and do other wrong and immoral things, then the baby will perceive such behavior as the norm, therefore, he will grow up the same as his parents. Moreover, it will be simply impossible to re-educate him in this case.
Rules of communication with the child
1. It is important to remain calm.Even if the mother is a very emotional and quick-tempered person, in the presence of her child she should be calm, not shout and especially not grab him sharply by the hand. Perhaps this rule is the most important. And it does not matter how old the child is. When the baby is in infancy, he can flinch from sharp cries, cry from fear. When he is five years old, he can perceive them with protest - this largely depends on his individual character traits. In this case, the baby will either also start shouting and crying, or take offense. The consequences of such treatment of the child will not take long to come: after a short time, he will become very irritable, disobedient. Of course, because he models the behavior of his parents, which means he behaves the same way as they do. This will also negatively affect his nervous system.
2. Set a good example.As mentioned above, children model the behavior of adults. Parents are role models for them. Who better than them can show how to behave in this world? Babies, like monkeys, copy the behavior of adults in everything. You need to be cunning in education. Why not take advantage of this cute childish feature of imitation and regularly show good examples? For example, buy
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