A golden wedding is so trembling and so rarea holiday, in fact it is devoted to the 50th anniversary of marriage in marriage! How much has been experienced, the children have grown, so that there are children, grandchildren are already big. Spouses are holding together not love, respect and mutual understanding, but something more, unknown to us. If your parents have reached this exciting number together, give them a holiday, they just deserve it!

How to celebrate this holiday

Celebrating the jubilee of a joint life canpass differently, depending on the physical condition of the perpetrators of the celebration. After all, if they lived together for 50 years, it means that they themselves are not less than 70. We will proceed from the fact that your parents are in good health. Celebrating a golden wedding is better organized at home than in a restaurant. It will be more convenient for you to rent a restaurant, but our parents of another generation, they are not used to this. Therefore, they will feel constrained. Invite all family members, close and old friends of your parents. They will be pleased to share this holiday with loving people. Ask relatives and friends who were at the wedding of your parents to prepare in advance and remember some interesting moments that occurred on that day. Cover the table, decorate it in gold tones. Do not forget to decorate the apartment. The house must have a holiday atmosphere! Prepare music, toasts, congratulations in advance. Children can learn touching congratulatory verses. Let each member of the family remember some kind of funny family history, an interesting event. Fill this day with vivid memories. Let your parents know that these 50 years have lived together for good reason, that their children had a happy childhood, that their grandchildren are proud of them. If it so happens that the health of your parents leads them and does not allow you to make a feast for the whole world, then just give your parents maximum attention. Show them that you love them and cherish them very much. Give them some nice memorable gift.

Gold wedding: customs and traditions

The most common custom is the exchange of goldrings. It is believed that after 50 years of joint life, the culprits of the celebration should pass their wedding rings to children or grandchildren as a family relic, and themselves put on each other new gold rings. Another nice tradition: the daughter must put on her mother's shawl, tied with a thread of golden color with her own hands. At the same time, she must thank her for the wisdom she has given, for always being there. Well, the most quivering custom is the dance of the "young". Prepare in advance slow lyrical music, one that will bring back pleasant memories to your parents. Guests take their hands and stand in a circle, and the husband and his wife are dancing their slow dance. At the end of the dance, the couple is showered with "gold" - serpentine made of foil, tinsel, special gold colored gold coins.

What gifts to give

It is obvious that on this day it is logical to give productsof gold. Present your parents with gold rings, which they will exchange. You can make engraving on the rings with the date of their wedding, names or some symbolic phrase for them. You can donate various ornaments from this precious metal. If parents do not wear jewelry, a good gift will be a gilded service. Nice and appropriate memorable gifts: watches, paintings. But the most pleasant gift for the elderly is emotion. Make a large wall newspaper with photos. It is unlikely that your parents have wedding photos, but you can depict on the newspaper their entire life together, all the important events that have occurred in your family. And for so many years they should have accumulated a lot! If your parents are vigorous and in excellent physical condition, then you can give them a trip to some holiday home. The change of the situation is favorable for everyone, and for the elderly even more so.

How to celebrate a golden wedding in other countries

If you want to diversify the celebration, you canLearn how a golden wedding is celebrated by other nations. According to the Catholic tradition, "newlyweds" can repeat their wedding day, get married again in the church and swear an oath of loyalty. If your parents are not married, then you can invite them to marry on the day of their golden wedding. And when else, if not now? In some countries, a golden wedding is celebrated in the same way as an ordinary wedding. A magnificent celebration is organized, the "bride" puts on a white dress. If you want to organize such a celebration, then ask your parents for permission and advice. Still, this is their holiday.

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