Serious problems in the family can arise because oflack of exchange of thoughts between spouses. This happens if all efforts are devoted to work, and after a working day, the husband or wife no longer finds the desire to communicate. It is easier to pick up a newspaper or turn on the TV. Antipathy is another reason for the breakdown of the union. It is no secret that the “My interests come first” mentality is widespread in society, everyone is focused only on themselves. When faced with difficulties, such a mindset will not allow one to admit their guilt or injustice in relation to a family member. Other reasons for divorce can be: alcohol addiction, violence, financial instability, difficult relationships with the husband's or wife's relatives. Legal dissolution of marriage sometimes provides protection, but in most cases does not lead to happiness and can cause a series of difficult psychological events, for example, moving or negative reactions from children to their parents. Shock, sadness, lost self-respect are possible consequences of the chosen step, divorce. Of course, separation does not doom you to unhappiness for the rest of your life. But it is still possible to avoid a breakdown in marital relations! Try your husband (or wife) to take the first step in showing love and respect, not to be selfish and to be interested in the affairs of your other half, discuss the problems that arise. It can also help.Do not be afraid to contact him, people of different ages, professions, positions come to a family psychologist, but the problem is the same - difficulties in relationships. Perhaps, gradually it will be possible to return his or her favor. Be ready for some sacrifices for the sake of the interests of the other. When making decisions, remember the feelings and desires of your partner. Have an attitude that disposes to treat marriage as a permanent relationship that must be maintained. We recommend reading: