One morning you suddenly woke up with a feelingholiday in your soul, but still can't figure out the reason for your good mood? Don't suffer so much, because today marks exactly 18 years since you were legally married. Now you can consider your family an adult. You can't call the date a round one, rare couples celebrate this day, and friends even forget to congratulate you on the anniversary. The celebration seems to dissolve among everyday problems, worries about already grown-up children, and there is no time left for yourself.
Title History
18 years old - a wonderful age, your relationshiphave already been tested for years, and a completely new stage in their further development begins, which is celebrated by the wedding anniversary. Among the people, this 18th anniversary has a special name - Turquoise Wedding. Greenish semi-precious stone is considered a symbol of this holiday. Since ancient times, the stone adorned the handles of daggers and swords, later - on gun butts. And in the daytime, turquoise was used only in the manufacture of men's rings. At first glance, it may seem that the warriors' talisman has nothing to do with the wedding anniversary, but you can't argue with the wise men. In marriage, for so many years, the spouses have often had disputes that escalated into real battles. The name "turquoise" is translated from Arabic as "victory". This may mean that after so many years of living together, your family has successfully overcome all obstacles and trials, and today's anniversary is proof of that. The firmness of the wedding talisman can be compared to the strength of the relationship. And the bright turquoise color is associated with sparkling passion and a whirlwind of feelings, as if you just got married.
Gifts for the holiday
The main gifts for newlyweds, whichcelebrate the eighteenth anniversary of marriage, are first of all talismans and jewelry made of turquoise. The magical energy of the stone will help to attract happiness, luck and wealth to the house. If you follow the traditions, then the celebration of the turquoise wedding should become a kind of ritual for the spouses, during which you need to exchange rings with turquoise - something like an oath of fidelity in love even after several years have passed. Guests should not buy rings as a gift to the newlyweds, someone else's anniversary is not a reason for such personal gifts. If you really want to present jewelry, it is better to choose earrings or a necklace. You will not violate the symbolism of the wedding, and you will be able to observe subordination. Experiment with the number 18, giving a bracelet with the appropriate number of stones. Turquoise wedding anniversary - a reason for practical gifts. The banal figurines, souvenirs and talismans that have been given to spouses for many years no longer fit into the apartment. It is better to replace them with practical items for apartment decor. For example, you can give a beautiful large candle in the shape of the number 18. Such a gift will definitely not be useless, and when the owners get tired of it, they will be able to use it for its intended purpose. Deviation from the symbolism is quite acceptable. If you have a stunning and fresh gift idea in your head, then feel free to bring it to life. Spouses who have not traveled beyond the borders of their city for 18 years will appreciate your idea to send them on vacation to a romantic place. Present them with your surprise at a time when they are enjoying their turquoise anniversary. And if you want to be sure that your gift will be to the liking of the spouses who have an anniversary, do not forget to bring flowers with you. A chic bouquet will not leave the turquoise wedding anniversary indifferent. You can complement the gift with a large box of chocolates. It would be ideal if the packaging had some kind of thematic drawing related to the anniversary of the holiday. Even if you were unable to attend the celebration in person or were simply not invited, do not forget to congratulate the newlyweds. Moreover, you should not be offended by people with whom you have been friends for several years.
How to save a marriage
You have 18 long years of marriage behind you.marriage, but this is not a reason to forget that ideal relationships are built on little things. Mutual respect, the absence of excessive sarcasm and the ability to listen will help you live together until the golden wedding anniversary. No one has canceled buying flowers for no reason, inviting you to a romantic dinner and a secluded vacation. Let your wedding anniversary become a stage in the development of your relationship. Moreover, signs of attention should come from both spouses. Agree that you both were pleased to congratulate each other on another anniversary. And it's not even about expensive gifts, but about mutual love. Although small signs of attention are useful not only on the occasion of a wedding anniversary. Sometimes a quiet romantic evening can bring much more pleasure than a party associated with the anniversary of family relations.