How to become a good mother to children
A really good mother does not feel guilty because of her actions. She is just happy with what she can give her baby attention, care and love.
Every woman can become a good mom. Photo: Getty Every mother needs to take note of these simple tips:
- Do not strive for the ideal. A constant pursuit of excellence will spoil your life and those around you. Life with the baby becomes very unpredictable.
- Try to be patient. Baby-creatures are restless and demanding, to that they create a lot of noise. But this does not mean that they want to experience the patience of the mother, they just need her help and attention.
- Get rid of feelings of guilt. Do not criticize yourself for staying at home with your baby instead of going to work. The choice is made, and blaming itself is a waste of effort, time and nerves.
- Take time for yourself. You do not need to be a martyr and bear all the burden on your shoulders. At the slightest opportunity, you need to give time to yourself.
- Learn to restrain your emotions and do not shout at the child. This negatively affects the psyche of the baby. If this happens, the baby must apologize.
Only a mother can invest in the heart of a small man the love of peace and trust in people. Therefore, you do not have to torment yourself with painful thoughts, it's better to have a fruitful and pleasant time with your baby.
How to be a good friend and companion for your son and daughter
It is necessary to learn that harmonious communication with the youngergeneration is much more important than the order in the apartment or career growth. Therefore, even if the mother works, she must find time for this. The baby should be hugged more often, he should be told affectionate words, ask about the past day, listen carefully to his problems, even if they seem insignificant. It would be nice to come up with a joint ritual. It can be evening bathing, reading fairy tales, singing. The preschooler will know that this time is completely dedicated to him, and it will be much easier to perceive the absence of mother in the afternoon. It is desirable that in the evening the whole family should have supper and spent time together - this very much joins the older and younger generations. Mom never should try to make from the daughter the improved copy of itself. A daughter is a small independent person with her own merits and demerits. It's better when my mother trusts her daughter more and treats her attentively. So the girl will know that she is loved the way she is. Do not forget that in the education of a big role belongs to the father. It is important that he also spent enough time with his offspring, loved them and took care of them. The example of the father has a huge impact on the sons. Maternity is a great happiness. You should cherish this time and try to educate a worthy person from your baby.
