How to become a good mother to children
A truly good mother does not feel guilty about her actions. She is simply happy that she can give her baby attention, care and love.
Every woman can become a good motherPhoto: Getty Every mother should take note of these simple tips:
- Do not strive for the ideal. A constant pursuit of excellence will spoil your life and those around you. Life with the baby becomes very unpredictable.
- Try to be patient.Children are restless and demanding creatures, and they make a lot of noise. But this does not mean that they want to test their mother's patience, they just need her help and attention.
- Get rid of guilt. Don't blame yourself for staying home with the baby instead of going to work. The choice has been made, and blaming yourself is a waste of energy, time and nerves.
- Take time for yourself. You do not need to be a martyr and bear all the burden on your shoulders. At the slightest opportunity, you need to give time to yourself.
- Learn to restrain your emotions and do not shout at the child. This negatively affects the psyche of the baby. If this happens, the baby must apologize.
Only a mother can put something into a child's heartlove for the world and trust in people. Therefore, there is no need to torment yourself with painful thoughts, it is better to spend time with your baby fruitfully and pleasantly.
How to be a good friend and conversationalist for your son and daughter
It is necessary to learn that harmonious communication withthe younger generation is much more important than the order in the apartment or career growth. Therefore, even if the mother works, she should find time for this. The baby needs to be hugged more often, told kind words, asked about the past day, listened attentively to his problems, even if they seem insignificant. It would be good to come up with a joint ritual. This could be an evening bath, reading fairy tales, singing. The preschooler will know that this time is completely dedicated to him, and it will be much easier to perceive the absence of the mother during the day. It is desirable that the whole family has dinner and spend time together in the evening - this really unites the older and younger generations. A mother should never try to make an improved copy of herself out of her daughter. A daughter is a small independent person with her own strengths and weaknesses. It is better when a mother trusts her daughter more and is attentive to her. So the girl will know that she is loved as she is. Do not forget that the father also plays a big role in upbringing. It is important that he also spends enough time with his offspring, loves them and takes care of them. The father's example has a huge influence on his sons. Motherhood is a great happiness. You need to cherish this time and try to raise a worthy person from your baby.
