Pros and cons of having children, the weather
The first thing parents think about when they find out aboutsecond pregnancy, - about the difficulties that they are facing. Of course, there are disadvantages in this situation, but do not forget about the pros. Such children are more amicable, they play together and develop together. For a second child, you do not have to buy diapers and clothes. Children can be sent together to a kindergarten and a school, so it will be easier for them to adapt to the new conditions.
Raising children, the weather is difficult, but interestingly Photo: Getty However, there are also disadvantages:
- the woman's body has not yet recovered;
- with the baby it is more difficult to bear pregnancy;
- a woman can not lift weights, and the first child needs mother's hands;
- it is twice as difficult to care for two children who will have a different order of day and night;
- at once two children may not have enough breast milk.
Despite the fact that the weather is often close to each other as twins, they can be very jealous of parents, especially the older child, who will have to grow up ahead of time.
How to cope with children-pogodkami
Two children of almost the same age - it's difficultphysically. The woman has to become literally "super", because there will be almost no time left for rest. To ensure that children develop the same way and none of them feel lack of attention and love, it is important to give them an equal amount of time. How to facilitate the education of weather:
- if possible, enlist the support of relatives or nannies;
- if finances allow, acquire modern household appliances - washing machine and dishwasher, robotic vacuum cleaner, multivar, stove and oven with timer and so on;
- get as many children's auxiliary goods as possible - carry-overs, walkers, high chairs for feeding;
- periodically separate children;
- Do not be required from an older adult;
- plan your time in advance;
- Avoid competition, do not compare children with each other.
To make it easier for yourself, combine timefeeding, bathing and studying with both children. And in order not to infringe upon the needs of children, spend the same amount of time with everyone. It is difficult to grow children-weather, but if you organize this process correctly, everything will turn out. And remember, it's difficult only at the very beginning, when the kids grow up, it will be easier for you than mothers with one child, since children will need less attention while they play or play together. It is also useful to know:
