A woman is a wonderful, beautiful creature.It is not for nothing that for centuries artists and poets have praised women as beautiful, mysterious, graceful and gentle creatures. But the greatest advantage of a woman is that she can be like that not only in men's dreams, but also in life. Some are naturally blessed with beauty, while others achieve it through tireless self-improvement. But what does the concept of female beauty include? What is it - a beautiful face and figure, the ability to wear fashionable clothes? Maybe it is a beautiful hairstyle or makeup? But why then does it so often happen that men pass by real beauties in search of a woman who would match their ideal? How to become an ideal woman who drives all men crazy and makes rivals jealous? An ideal woman is not only the owner of a magnificent figure and gorgeous hair. We would like to draw your attention to some important details of real female beauty, without which a sexy dress, a beautiful hairstyle and stunning makeup can be powerless, and you will not look attractive. Of course, no one is saying that a dream woman should not be beautiful, but this is clearly not enough - other qualities are also needed.

Qualities that increase the attractiveness of women

Attractiveness is a rather strange thing in general.A woman can be quite beautiful, but if she is not attractive, then her beauty most often remains unnoticed. Being attractive does not mean that we should attract attention only because of our appearance, without revealing our inner qualities. An attractive woman, first of all, knows how to show her inner beauty. But how should we, the fair sex, do this? What are they, the traits of an ideal woman? And what qualities should we develop in ourselves to get closer to the image of the ideal? After all, at first glance, everything is perfect - and smart, and you don’t have to mince words. But it’s not enough to have these qualities somewhere deep in your soul - you need to be able to reveal them and show them to others to your advantage. But the main thing is not to overdo it. Follow these recommendations and you will surely succeed.

• Be yourself

Many people try to hide their trueessence, pretending that they are better or worse (this happens!) than they really are. We have no reason to hide our shortcomings or pretend that they do not exist at all. There are no perfect people, everyone has some shortcomings. But sincere people, as a rule, are more attractive to others. And shortcomings can be worked on. But if you try to put on a mask - like, a woman should be different, not like me - you are doomed to failure in advance. Believe me, if you try to portray qualities that are not inherent in you, your strength will not last long - sooner or later your essence will make itself known. Even if you are strong enough, such an existence under someone else's guise will not bring you any joy. That is why a woman should be herself - only then can she become ideal.

• Self-confidence is one of the key points of attractiveness

Even in simple clothes, with simple makeup orEven without it, you will look very good if you feel confident. It happens that a woman is not at all more beautiful than others, but she is so confident in her natural attractiveness that this confidence is transmitted to others. Such women always make an impression and attract the attention of men. If, for example, you look closely at famous actresses or singers, you will be able to see that not all of them have a flawless appearance and an ideal figure. But their behavior, their confidence will make you believe that they are the standard of beauty. And any of them is an ideal woman. It cannot be otherwise! So do not be shy. Love yourself, and then others will love you. However, you should remember that the line between confidence and self-confidence is very thin. Avoid self-confidence, because there are no self-confident ideal women! A woman should be self-confident, but at the same time, one should not forget about natural modesty, which, as we know, adorns a representative of the fair sex.

• Do not be a tarragon

There is something attractive about those people,whose words are full of meaning. You shouldn't talk just for the sake of talking. Abraham Lincoln once said: "It is better to remain silent and seem a fool than to open your mouth and dispel all doubt." Of course, no one will call a silent woman a fool. On the contrary, a man will like such a woman more than a restless chatterbox. We are not at all calling you to impose a vow of silence on yourself - this is not what we are talking about. Just do not talk a lot and about nothing. It is unlikely that your interlocutor is interested in the fact that the neighbors' son bought a new car, the Petrovs took out a mortgage, and Sidorov gave his wife a diamond ring. At best, the reaction to such chatter will be a yawn, and at worst, they will start avoiding you altogether. Therefore, remember that a woman should carefully monitor what, how and how much she says.

• Listen to others

Today the art of listening and hearing othersis gradually forgotten by people. These are the times - no one has time, everyone is in a hurry. But it is worth learning. When you listen to someone, you must really listen. If a conversation with you is no different from a conversation with a wall, then you are unlikely to be attractive to the interlocutor. But in women who know how to listen, there is some kind of magnetism, and men are drawn to them. But remember that it is not enough to just listen - a woman must be able to react correctly to what she heard: sympathize, support or give advice. And sometimes just keep silent, allowing a man to simply speak out. All this is not as easy as it may seem at first glance - often it takes more than one year to become an ideal listener.

• Do not complain.

Many people constantly complain, but at the same time do notwithout making any attempts to eliminate the causes of these complaints. Don't be like them. Stop whining and complaining about your fate, otherwise you will have even more troubles. The biggest trouble is that all men will avoid communicating with you. Yes, they love weak and defenseless women, because next to such a woman any man feels like a noble protector. But whining has nothing to do with female defenselessness. For a whiner, no matter what she does, she will still be dissatisfied with life. So enjoy life and be grateful for its gifts. Cheerfulness and optimism - that's what a woman who claims to be ideal should remember.

• Laugh, smile, positive

Any person becomes very pleasant andattractive when he laughs. Everyone likes people with a sense of humor, as opposed to depressed people with a constant bad mood. And nothing can make a woman as pleasant and attractive as a real radiant smile, no matter whether it is flirtatious, light or wide, turning into laughter. A smile can really improve your appearance. A smile is attractive and contagious; when you smile, you give people light and warmth, and people are drawn to this light. A smile makes you feel warmer, your mood rises and you feel happy. Remember how Mona Lisa attracts and excites people's imagination - an ideal woman with a mysterious smile. And there would be no such perfect beauty without this graceful, barely noticeable smile! Not only a smile makes a woman pleasant to talk to, but also a generally positive attitude to life and the ability to be happy. Look around and you will easily see that positive women, who also lead an active lifestyle, attract everyone's attention. These are ideal women for communication - everyone wants to be around them, because they charge everyone with their energy, with them life is seen in the brightest colors. And if you become the same - you will be much more attractive and beautiful. But do not confuse optimism with stupidity and frivolity - a woman should always realistically assess the situation, so as not to be known as an empty-headed simpleton.

• Be open to other people

Nobody likes withdrawn, unsociable loners.Be open to communication and new relationships. Regardless of who you communicate with, always remember - you are not worse! Each of us is unique and has value for society. By the way, constantly expanding your social circle, you will improve yourself. And this is quite natural, because you will learn a lot, you will learn a lot. And the chances of meeting the ideal man will also increase many times over.

How to become perfect for a man

Every woman cares about how she is perceivedthe male part of her social circle. You can work on yourself and your shortcomings, the main thing is to know what an ideal woman is through the eyes of a man. After all, your mother's and your man's ideas about an ideal woman will probably be radically different, won't they? The overwhelming majority of men's standards for a woman's ideality change with age. Young men aged 17-20 have a very low threshold of exactingness, for whom an ideal woman is any girl who easily agrees to sex. This is a stage in a man's life when quantity is important, not quality. When a young man becomes an independent, money-making young man, he begins to be more demanding of a woman's appearance. And only after some time, having gone through many relationships, a man begins to change the list of positive qualities in his standards of female attractiveness. The most important thing for him is a woman's ability to understand a man and respect his male ego. Often, it is the lack of these qualities in a woman that serves as the answer to why many relationships fail; why men run away from a beauty one after another, while a "gray mouse" has no end of admirers. And if we generalize the revelations of men, then we can draw certain conclusions. This is what an ideal woman looks like in a man's mind:

• Respect for men

She realizes that a man has a different view of many thingsthings can be different and that a point of view different from her own is equal and worthy of respect. You can’t try to turn a man into a woman, forcing him to solve his problems in a woman’s way. It is not necessary to understand why he sees many things differently from you, the main thing is not to try to change his worldview. She understands that even the strongest man has a very sensitive and fragile ego. This is one of the biggest male secrets. And if you publicly create a pedestal for his ego, be it in front of friends, relatives or even strangers, he will think that you are the most beautiful woman in the world. Never, nowhere and under no circumstances will a real woman humiliate a man’s self-esteem. Even alone with him.

• She respects his ambitions

Women tend to be more focused onsecurity and peace in everyday life. A man is driven by the need to overcome obstacles and win. He needs to constantly compete with someone. Modern society does not give him enough ways to fulfill this need, which leads a man to a feeling of disappointment in his life. So if your man wants to get into some adventure, in your opinion, wants to expose himself to stupid or dangerous risks - support his ambitions, even if you cannot fully understand them. Make him think that he is capable of achieving high goals, and let him be sure that you will love him and believe in him, even if he fails. A real man would rather try, even if unsuccessfully, than not try at all.

• Faith in a man

She believes that her man is unique.Respect and belief in a man's abilities are more important to him than love. This is the hardest thing for a woman to understand, but if you do not understand and accept this fact, you will always have difficulties in relationships with men. If men had to choose between feelings and respect, the vast majority of them would choose respect. For a man, love without a sense of respect and recognition by his partner of his best qualities is so burdensome that it is easier for him to do without love at all. And if you do not give him respect and a sense of importance for you, he will look for those women who can appreciate him at his true worth.

• She understands that man by nature is a visual

Call it what you will, but a man is a naturalprogrammed precisely for the advantage of visual perception. We can do nothing about it. One of the easiest ways to make your man happy is to allow him to contemplate not only yourself, but also other beautiful girls who catch his eye. You should not perceive this as cheating, and even more so you should not scold him for every glance that he involuntarily lingers on this or that attractive young lady. But! - do not forget that it would not hurt you to look attractive too.

• She values ​​the breadwinner

Of course, a modern woman is quiteindependent, she is able to earn well. But you can't forget to show your gratitude to the man for the fact that he cares about the well-being of the family and works without sparing himself.

• She is an interesting person

A man values ​​not only beauty, but also intelligencewomen. He is not interested in communicating with a beautiful but stupid doll every day. Therefore, try not to get hung up on improving your appearance, but also do not narrow your interests to everyday and family problems. Find a hobby for yourself. Read more. Be able to communicate on various topics. Have a wide circle of friends. Very often people suffer from a kind of narcissism, when it seems to them that they are interesting to people for themselves, without any reason. Don't be one of those!

• She is never rude.

Men like to see a woman as a gentle and sensitive creature, and he will never be delighted at the sight of a rude woman who is capable of screaming, insulting and even swearing.

• She is attractive, but modest

Every man is flattered when his woman is goodlooks. But not everyone likes it if she is dressed too provocatively. He will not like it if she starts flirting with the surrounding gentlemen - every man appreciates modesty and loyalty in a woman. That is why a woman should be modest in any situation. One could give a lot more advice on how to become an ideal woman. But the main thing still depends on you - you need to feel that you are beautiful, sexy, unique. And finally, look how beautiful this world is - and the whole world will see that you are an ideal woman! We recommend reading:

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