…100% guarantee that each of usI've encountered such a concept as "jealousy" - it's familiar, isn't it?.. yesterday I once again remembered this topic that everyone is already tired of, and decided to talk to my boyfriend. I'll regret 100 times that the idea came into my head to talk about this! It turned out that he is not jealous at all, and I, on the contrary, am a terrible possessive woman, and as a result of such conversations we quarreled - somehow it turns out that I turn everything into paranoia, so it's my fault. But! Today I thought about this topic once more, and realized that in reality he does not give me reasons for jealousy. That is why I decided to develop this topic here. I think that each of us often caught ourselves thinking that we are jealous for absolutely no reason. Probably, this can be connected with the fact that as soon as someone important appears in our life, someone whom we are afraid to death of losing, someone with whom we want to spend all our time, without sharing this person with anyone, we immediately begin to invent non-existent competitors for ourselves, who, as it seems to us, are just trying to steal the most important thing that has appeared in our life, although most often this is not so - I decided to reconsider my habit of jealousy, and try to somehow reduce the influence of this feeling on me, and on our relationship as a result. They say, after all, and not for nothing, that thoughts and self-hypnosis are very powerful assistants in such matters. why does jealousy arise? with my nature, even the answer is possible: the desire to hang a sign *occupied* on a person, and not only… but there is one important point that, I am sure, many miss. answer yourself a simple question: this person is with you, isn't he? among thousands, he, apparently for very important reasons for him, chose you? .. if you are sure that he is not cheating, why ruin your nerves because of groundless suspicions, if in life and without them there is enough stress? .. think about it … allow yourself to trust a person, as if no one has ever betrayed you, because once we did not even suspect about such a feeling as jealousy, something made us show it - it does not matter what, but it was, and now the experience that we once received does not allow us to believe, love, live as before… you know, I want to wish you all to forget about what was, and with new people to behave as if these are the first people in your life - there are already too many disappointments, betrayals, episodes that slowly but purposefully kill our faith, but in fact you want to believe. You want to, right?.. I'm not saying that you need to put on rose-colored glasses and turn into naive fools, just let the person show you that all these emotions are inappropriate, that an important and necessary person for you is WITH YOU, and is everything else important?.. Author:
