Do you know the essence of the two halves theory?This is a very beautiful story about how once upon a time all people were androgynous, that is, they combined both male and female parts. Their life was incredibly happy: they spent all day picking fruit, walking along the seashore and listening to birdsong. But one day the gods became angry with them. Either they were irritated by human happiness, or they were afraid of an attempt on their power by androgynous people, but it happened that they divided everyone into two halves. Since then, every person is doomed to sadness and melancholy until they find their companion. It does not matter whether this was really the case or not, but the fact remains - no woman is comfortable alone. Accordingly, she begins to think about how to attract a man into her life. Naturally, he is not a weak-willed calf who can be easily controlled. However, in order to increase your chances, you can take certain steps in this direction.
What kind of women do men like?
In order to understand how to attract a man toyour life, you first need to figure out what is considered attractive and what is not so much. Of course, all guys are different, but despite this, you can identify some more or less clear contours of the ideal they strive for. At least, this applies to sane men. So, what female qualities attract them?
- Beauty A man loves with his eyes - or, in other wordsAt least, that's how he falls in love. Accordingly, in order to capture his attention, you need to be, at a minimum, aesthetically attractive. And better yet, bright and beautiful. Many women misunderstand this idea, making themselves a size 5 breast, pumping up their lips with silicone or wearing loud makeup. But everything happens the other way around: among the generation of girls who look like Barbie dolls, the owner of sensual natural beauty will look much more advantageous.
- Support This concept is incredibly multifaceted!At the beginning of the acquaintance, support can be expressed in the woman's admiration of the man. They really like to feel important and cool. Then it can be reborn as support in difficult life situations, when the woman gives advice to her man and tells him warm words. And, of course, the notorious cooking. What else can it mean if not female care? That is why men are so greedy for delicious homemade borscht and cutlets.
- Intelligence A woman should not be smarter than a man -at least, it should not be felt in their communication. But it is important that he is interested in her. This can be achieved through common tastes and directions. And sometimes a woman can surprise her partner with some unknown facts or funny stories. A sense of humor also plays a big role in the issue of communication, and it largely depends on the level of intelligence.
- Flexibility Men like to feelthe main ones. They are the ones who decide how everything will happen. After a quarrel, they will never be the first to make peace. Accordingly, they are attracted to girls who do not take a stand at every opportunity. On the contrary, a wise woman will find a way to adapt to the tastes and opinions of her man without losing herself. She knows how to smooth over a conflict by gently stroking his hand and whispering something in his ear. She knows what and when to do in order to support the male energy of her chosen one. With her, he feels like the king of the world.
- Softness is now in fashionwomen-"warriors" who know how to stand up for themselves, be rude and scold. And someone even falls for them, but a normal man will always be repelled by this! Femininity and softness can transform anyone: gestures become light and unhurried, the gait is smooth, there is a sparkle in the eyes. The woman becomes like a flower that begins to open. And for some reason the man wants to be with her.
Psychological barriers
Above we described what kind of girls aremost attractive to men. But in life there is not only a plus sign, but also a minus. Unfortunately, many of us are the unfortunate owners of various psychological barriers that interfere with building harmonious relationships. How is this expressed? Self-doubt is the first and most important obstacle on the path to love. What kind of man will be interested in a woman who does not like herself? Perhaps you have some shortcomings. But you are a living person, and everyone has shortcomings! Here you have two ways - to get rid of them or come to terms with their presence. But living with the awareness of your own inferiority is wrong. You are beautiful as a woman regardless of how you look and what you do. It is very important to catch this inner feeling and feed on the energy from it, and at the same time gift it to your man. The extreme version of self-doubt is complexes. Usually they do not arise out of nowhere, but are based on some kind of traumatic experience. For example, a girl had bad skin at school, for which she was teased a lot, and since then she considers herself ugly. Or her mother told her all her life how clumsy she was, because of which no one would marry her. This is a very bad thing, you need to get rid of it with the help of a specialist who will develop special psychological exercises for you and will give the necessary support. Each of us has our own stereotypes about how the world works. For example, that all employees of the Federal Migration Service are harmful aunts. This is how our psyche functions: when there are some strict schemes, it helps us not to waste energy each time on researching the situation, but simply to think in pre-known categories. But it often happens that some stupid stereotypes begin to hinder us. Probably, all our readers have encountered male meanness. And how you want to label all men after this: “Bastards!” and proudly walk with him through life! But in this case, there is a high probability that: a) men will really behave with you the way you expect them to; b) because of this stereotype, you will not see someone truly worthy. Therefore, it is necessary to get rid of such stereotypes, especially in relation to men. Ignorance of male psychology is another obstacle to female happiness. Often, we simply do not understand what is going on in their heads. But these are the ones from whom we want love and understanding! So why not learn to understand them? For example, a woman complains to a man for a long time, and having received dry advice on the situation in response, she begins to get angry and accuses him of spiritual callousness. Or tells him that he earns little. All these examples show how poorly women predict the consequences of their actions and do not know the specifics of male behavior. Good books on male psychology and an inside look from male friends who are able to reveal to you some of the secrets of their souls will help you get rid of this.
Useful add-ons
So now you know what attracts men,and what prevents them from entering your life. This does not mean that you should fanatically remake your own personality. But it will not be superfluous to think about what prevents you from being feminine. Now it is time to act more specifically. We offer you useful practical recommendations, the application of which will inevitably attract a guy into your life.
Every person's happiness lies in his ownyour own hands. You have the power to change your life for the better. And what is happiness for a woman? A beloved man nearby and well-being in the family. You deserve it - believe and act in the right direction. Then the result will not take long to come.
