For the second week, the whole country is discussing a horrible,the bloody and shocking story of the Khabarovsk Slayunders. In short, adolescent girls picked up puppies and cats, promising to put them in good hands. And cruelly killed defenseless animals, filming the whole process on camera. It is impossible to look at these pictures without tears and horror. And the girls, quite prosperous at first glance, became real executioners. We tried to figure out why this happened, together with the expert.
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Where does the problem come from?
- Everything that children have, good or bad,originates from the family. It is necessary to understand - what kind of families these girls have - the psychiatrist-criminalist, doctor of medical sciences and psychiatry professor Mikhail Vinogradov answers the question. One of the girls has a very prosperous family. Mom works in law enforcement. Dad is a military man. Probably both have a lot of work. Surely both are supporters of tough discipline. A grandmother brings up the second torturer. Her mother was deprived of parental rights. There is no father. - Here you have the answer. Even if there are both mom and dad, if both of them are good people and get along with each other, they may not be able to give something to the child. First of all attention. Come from work - busy with household chores. Dinner to cook, finish report, relax at the TV. And there is no attention to children. His disadvantage is the main problem in modern families, - Mikhail Viktorovich continues. According to our expert, parents underestimate the role of live communication with the child. After all, only five to ten minutes of warm, confidential conversation are enough for him to feel at ease in his soul. - Pat the child, hug, braid the braid - parental warmth warms children's souls. And if the relations in the family are good, but formal, this can also be a problem, says Mikhail Vinogradov. What can we say about children who grow up without parents. They have even more difficult.
Positive current
Professor encourages: recognize child aggression is still possible. True, the parents themselves are not always capable of this. It is better to seek help from a specialist. - At 13 years old, less often at 12, it is necessary that a psychologist, not a psychiatrist, necessarily talk to a child. This is necessary in order to reveal all his innermost desires and aggression, which is in general characteristic of all children. Identify and send in a positive direction. The whole thing is that at this age hormonal changes occur in the body. Simply the brain is still childish, and the aggression is quite adult. Therefore, adolescents are recommended to send to sports clubs - boxing, hockey, aerobics, basketball. Anything, if only he had where to throw out the energy. - Home children come already calm. The release of energy occurred, was constructive - this is the main thing, - explains Mikhail Viktorovich. And if you miss this time and the child is still gone all serious? Is it really too late to rectify the situation? ”“ In this case, going to a psychologist is no longer just necessary, but it is imperative. Correction of behavior can take about six months. 4−5 months if the child comes in contact. And up to a year - if not, - sums up the specialist.
