Can't convince with the word - use a forcesuppress the power. It seems that the teacher Olga Alferova from the St. Petersburg school with the gentle name Bereginya is raising children according to this principle. The teacher decided to teach a disobedient second-grader Lesha. She wrote the word “fool” with a ballpoint pen on the boy’s forehead, giving his classmates fun.A photo: Getty Images Lesha was so depressed and ashamed that even his parents did not dare to tell about what had happened, until a few days later the mother of one of his classmates did not make a fuss. She told all the parents of the boy. Mother Lesha to release the conflict on the brakes did not. I went to school and, at the same time, sent complaints to the Ministry of Education and the prosecutor’s office. The teacher later said: before taking the pen, she warned Lesha, reports It turns out the teacher was irritated that at recess children painted their hands with felt-tip pens. Threatened: who once again will make a tattoo for herself, she will write “fool” on his forehead. And the next day I again caught Lesha and his friends with felt-tip pens. His word teacher remained true. However, only Lesha did the scapegoat. Now the boy will have to seriously try to get rid of the new nickname, which he received from the light hand of the teacher. Meanwhile, Olga Alferova, as it turned out, not only teaches at school for 20 years, but also reads online lectures on parenting. So, on the Internet you can find her video seminar "How to make children sit in a classroom with behavioral problems." The fact that the problems in behavior is in Alferova herself, the students of the seminar clearly did not know. The teacher is also engaged in tutoring. Her rating on profi.ru is 4.6 points. In addition to the diploma of Alferov’s Pedagogical Institute, he has a second higher education. She is an expert in social work. But, apparently, Alferova did not listen very attentively to the lectures on psychology and social pedagogy. They say that before there were no special complaints about the teacher. Although parents recognize: she is a person of mood. Is it possible after that to talk about professionalism, if the teacher brings his bad mood to work, and even more so to the children? "The most important phenomenon in school, the most instructive subject, the most vivid example for a student is the teacher himself," writes Olga on page in social networks for educators. Sad, I must say, there was an example.Photo:Getty Images Without waiting for further proceedings, Alferova has already filed a letter of resignation. However, the parents of Lesha's classmates suddenly stood up for the teacher - they came to the school, demanding that the teacher be returned. They say that the act was, of course, wild, but Alferova herself is kind, albeit impulsive. I wonder how the parents would talk if, during another impulse, the teacher wrote "fool" on the forehead of one of their children? Psychologist's comment:Galina OkhotnikovaIf a child has problems with peers,advise how to resolve them. If the conflict is with a teacher, go to school and sort it out personally. It is important not to forget about the child himself. Why didn't this boy immediately contact his parents? This is also a serious question. Now, more than ever, he needs support, he needs to show that he is not alone, but at the same time not focus on what happened. And classmates, seeing that the parents stood up for the boy, will not bully him. They will feel a strength that they will respect.

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