Can't convince with the word - use a forcesuppress the power. It seems that the teacher Olga Alferova from the St. Petersburg school with the gentle name Bereginya is raising children according to this principle. The teacher decided to teach a disobedient second-grader Lesha. She wrote the word “fool” with a ballpoint pen on the boy’s forehead, giving his classmates fun.Photo:Getty Images Lesha was so depressed and ashamed that even his parents did not dare to tell about what had happened, until a few days later the mother of one of his classmates made a fuss. I told everything to the boy's parents. Lesha's mother did not let the conflict go down on the brakes. She went to the school to sort it out, and at the same time sent complaints to the Ministry of Education and the prosecutor's office. The teacher later said: before taking up the pen, she warned Lesha, reports It turns out that the teacher was annoyed that children painted their hands with felt-tip pens during recess. She threatened: whoever gets a tattoo again, she will write “fool” on his forehead. And the next day I again caught Lesha and his friends with felt-tip pens. The teacher remained true to her word. True, only Lesha made the scapegoat. Now the boy will have to seriously try to get rid of the new nickname, which he received with the light hand of the teacher. Meanwhile, Olga Alferova, as it turned out, has not only been teaching at school for 20 years, but also reads online lectures on raising children. So, on the Internet you can find her video seminar "How to seat children with behavioral problems in the classroom." The participants of the seminar clearly did not know that Alferova herself had behavioral problems. The teacher is also engaged in tutoring. Her rating on profi.ru is 4.6 points. In addition to a teacher's diploma, Alferova has a second higher education. She is a social work specialist. But, apparently, Alferova did not listen to lectures on psychology and social pedagogy very attentively. They say that before there were no special complaints about the teacher. Although the parents admit: she is a person of mood. After that, is it possible to talk about professionalism if the teacher brings his bad mood to work, and even more so to the children? in the social network for educators. Sad, I must say, an example came out.A photo: Getty Images Without waiting for further proceedings, Alferova has already filed a letter of resignation. However, the parents of classmates Lesha suddenly stood up for the teacher - they came to the school, demanding the teacher be returned. Say, the act is, of course, wild, but Alferova herself is a kind, albeit impulsive. I wonder how parents would have started talking if during the next impulse the teacher wrote a “fool” on the forehead of one of their children? Psychologist's comment: Galina OkhotnikovaIf a child has peer problems,advise how to solve them. If the conflict with the teacher, go to school and understand personally. It is important not to forget about the child himself. Why didn't this boy turn to his parents right away? This is also a serious issue. He is now more than ever, support is important, you need to show that he is not alone, but at the same time not focus on what happened. And classmates, seeing that the parents stood up for the boy, will not make him harass. They will feel a force that will be respected.

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