All can kings, all can kings, but thatspeak, no king can escape school. Even the future. The third one in the queue for the British throne, George George, whose parents, following centuries-old traditions, were sent to first class, does not want to learn new subjects, even if his training passes through a benign, pre-school regime. "He told me that he had just taken Prince George to school and that he did not want to go there at all. Well, everything is like with my children, ”said 31-year-old mother of two children Louise Smith, who managed to greet him during a visit to Milton Keynes in honor of his 50th birthday, shared with Prince William.
Photo:@kensingtonroyalAnd did you recognize your child in this behavior? Woman’s Day asked a child psychologist how to find motivation to go to school at the end of the first school month, when the enthusiasm after the transition from the carefree summer to the school autumn has probably already subsided a little. — Often, in order to stimulate a child to study, parents promise to buy him something or take him somewhere for success, but such motivation can only be used at first, — advises the readers of our site the head of the pediatric department of the International Institute of Psychosomatic Health Irina Taranova. — Moreover, psychologists recommend avoiding such an incentive if possible. When the child has already formed the habit of going to school, the habit of doing homework, and most importantly, the perseverance required to be included in the lesson system, such motivation will be completely unnecessary. Our expert noted that for children from 7 years old to adolescence, the main activity should be studying. — If a child cannot sit through a lesson and still wants to play all the time, this means that he still has a predominantly play motivation, which is typical for children of an earlier age, — explains Irina Taranova. — This means that the child is psychologically immature or his brain lacks some resources that generate perseverance. Sometimes a child avoids school because of bad grades. In this case, the child psychologist assures, you need to work with him to overcome the fear of failure. — It is extremely difficult for parents to do this on their own; professional help is needed here, — she recommends. — You need to work not with the fact that the child does not want to go to school because he cannot do something or may not succeed, but with how he accepts his failures or possible failures. And what to do if the child is not afraid of anything, but has burned out, enthusiastically taking up gnawing on the granite of science in the first school month? — Often, such “burnout” hides problems with peers - this is a very common factor today. Or problems in interaction with the teacher, - our expert reveals the secret. - This is aggravated by the fear of doing something wrong in front of the whole class and thus putting yourself in an unpleasant situation. There can be many reasons. Therefore, you need to understand them and eliminate them step by step, and not write everything off as a banal unwillingness to study. After all, in a favorable home environment, the desire to study, that is, to learn something new, is instilled by itself and without much effort.
