"But to whom is he so!"- in your hearts you exclaim. Most likely, in you. You just do not remember. Moreover - these features, which now beset you, can make the child the most successful and happy person on the planet.

1. Confidence and stubbornness

The child is probably showing signs of stubbornnessWe've all encountered this. Every child has at least once shown inflexibility when it came to, for example, buying a new toy or chocolate bar. And how zealously children defend their right not to wear tights in winter! But there are children who thirst for victory at any cost. And you can break your back, but he will go to kindergarten in shorts, even though it's January. It's pretty easy to recognize the parents of such a child. Their jaws are chronically clenched from suppressed curses. When such children turn into teenagers, they can be really difficult. It's impossible to convince them of anything. But think about it - such stubbornness has its advantages. If a child strictly follows his convictions, it means that he is protected from the influence of the crowd. Herd mentality? No, that's not about him. I see the goal - I see no obstacles - that's about him. So if you are lucky enough to raise a little stubborn child, know that you are raising a future boss and a real leader.

2 Shyness and shyness

He clings to his mother's dress, barely.peeking out from behind it, hiding from those horrible loud strangers. He is always calm, diligent and neat. But sometimes he just drives you crazy, refusing to go out and say hello to his aunt. Yes, your child is an introvert. Congratulations. Sooner or later, your baby will grow out of his stiffness and excessive shyness. But this does not mean that they will strive for the role of the first violin. They will never like excessive attention. But your sensitive baby will be protected by his own “I” from the unbridled entertainment of teenagers. And then he will grow up to be a thoughtful, compassionate adult, capable of empathy and sympathy. Your current introvert is tomorrow's thinker. Who knows, maybe he will become the best yoga instructor in the world. Or maybe he will create a charity fund to help those in need.

3. Insolence and talkableness

Traits of a future successful lawyer.If your child is always trying to end any argument or discussion so that he or she has the last word, then you will probably have an incredibly eloquent speaker. It may even seem as if he or she does not respect you, his or her own parents, enough. But this is simply a personality trait – to challenge authority. And they are often stubborn and can be ruthless, expressing harsh judgments. But who knows, maybe these very qualities will lead him or her to the UN? As a lawyer, for example, or as an envoy of peace. Or he or she will take his or her place in diplomatic circles. Anything is possible. So the best thing you can do for him or her is to teach him or her how to conduct a discussion correctly, and also pay attention to the development of logic and analytical skills.

4. Love for thrill. Or simply stiletto

If he disappeared from sight for a couple of seconds,You can be sure that you will find him in a tree in the yard, from where he is rescuing a kitten, for example. Or testing a flying machine of his own invention. Or the next second he will jump on you from the closet, wrapped in a curtain - this is your personal superhero. He cannot sit still for a second. He is a future traveler, climber, marathon runner, inventor, diver, parachutist. A rebellious soul and an adventurer. Your baby is invincible. Very soon he will learn to push the boundaries of the possible, will challenge anything - just not to know what boredom is. Such people make us feel the beat of life more acutely. And often they become emergency doctors, surgeons, pilots, firefighters, even investigators.

5. Dreaminess and detachment

"Earth, earth, answer!"Hello, are you there?" Is your little one constantly immersed in his dreams, from which he cannot be easily pulled? Yes, sometimes it can be annoying. Because he has to repeat everything twice. Or even three times. Such children are absent-minded, they always forget to put a diary in their school bag, charge their phone. You ask him to get dressed, and 15 minutes later you find him standing in front of the TV with a sock in his hands. Such a child will grow up to be a person who will never worry in vain. He will not fray his nerves from constant stress and will not end up in the hospital with an ulcer. He is a dreamer and lets the blows of fate pass him by. Such people are often inclined to a creative career: they become musicians, fashion designers, artists. All these children are different. But they all require one thing - love and patience. After all, when they grow up, they will definitely become very good people. Maybe precisely thanks to those character traits that are terribly annoying now.

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