How to raise your child healthy andhappy, what is a really joyful childhood, what to do to teach a child to be kind, sociable, purposeful, how to praise it properly and whether it is possible to punish, what games to play and what songs to sing - all of this and many other things will be told by simple and clear video lessons from Woman`s Day and the teacher-psychologist Elena Shuvarina.Photo: E.'s personal archive ShuvarinaOur third meeting with the experienced and wise teacher-psychologist Elena Shuvarina will help parents learn how to properly praise their children, as well as understand whether everything can be resolved by their children.

How to properly praise a child so that praise would benefit him?

All of us, parents, are very different: some believe that raising children is only necessary in severity, others are convinced: the praise of a child can not be spoiled. Who is right? Elena Shuvarina, a teacher and psychologist, head of the Development Center for Children and Parents "The House of Joy", advises: praise is necessary, but ... you need to do it right! "Praise your child for a specific and understandable action. The child should know what exactly he did well, "Elena recommends. And emphasizes: encourage the baby not only with the word, supplement your words with touches, a smile, hugs and kisses. Sometimes for a child this is more important than your words. But how not to overdo it, not to "praise" the child, not to instill in him a sense of superiority over others? Advice from a professional - in the video "TV-Joy":

Prohibit or allow?

"Do not you dare touch this kitten - you pick it up"Immediately put the knife in place - you'll cut yourself!" "Do not be friends with this boy, he's a hooligan!" Did you recognize yourself? Yes, we, parents, sometimes try to prohibit a child very much. But do not rush to blame yourself: we certainly do it from the best convictions, taking care of the safety of our child, about his correct behavior, development and environment. But we do not know that prohibitions are different ... in color. Yes, there are red, orange, yellow and green bans! Why they are so called and what the prohibitions differ from each other, says Elena Shuvarina: What color bans will prevail in your relationship with your children - it's up to you. But at the moment when you really really want to stop the baby with another "Immediately Get Back!" Or "Do not you dare do this!", Remember, please, the words of Elena Shuvarina: "It is possible and necessary to negotiate with the child. Because the child will strive to negotiate with other people, and when he grows up - and with his children too. Moreover, he will understand that in this world there is nothing hopeless, and there will always be suitable alternatives - it is only necessary to think a little. "

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