We are looking forward to this baby
Photo: Artem Gvozdulin. Did you plan to have a child with your husband or did it not work out intentionally?
Baby we planned, it did not happen by chance. My husband and I had a clear plan of action in advance. I thank God that we did not have to work for a long time, everything turned out the first time. Dima and I are two adults and we know what we want, so when we got together, we didn’t want to wait for anything. We decided to immediately get married and have a baby, so as not to waste time in vain. We are looking forward to this baby and immensely happy. How did you find out about pregnancy?My doctor who led the first pregnancysays I'm very sensitive. Perhaps it really is. After all, I guessed about pregnancy almost immediately, I felt how hormones were raging in me, my mood was changing. She told Dima that she was definitely pregnant, and he replied that it was too early to draw conclusions, we had to wait. Then the moment came when we did a test together that showed a positive result. Dima was incredibly happy, but we did not doubt victory, we knew that this would happen and happen quickly. What month are you now?Almost on the sixth. Time flies by so quickly, it seems like I only recently found out about the baby, and more than half of the term has already passed. How are you feeling? Are you suffering from toxicosis?I felt very bad during the first weeks.I spent almost three months in bed. My husband and I decided not to talk about the pregnancy, Dima was very worried and afraid that something would go wrong. There was no toxicosis as such, but there was a strong sensitivity to smells, I absolutely did not want to get up. I cried, then laughed, and then cried again.
I try to eat right
Photo: Artem Gvozdulin How do you eat now? What is included in your diet?My food preferences have changed dramatically. In the first months I could not even look at the meat. After the third month I started eating it again. In general, I try to eat right, the fridge is always full of fresh vegetables and fruits. For a long time, only bread with a tomato easily entered me, with time it became better, but I still suffer, and with my family, when they decide what they will feed me. From harmful products, I allow myself only bread. Sweet has ceased to exist for me, I can not even remember the taste of all sorts of different delicacies, which I used to indulge myself. Are you not afraid to gain a lot of extra pounds?I'm not too worried about overweight. I am sure that the kilograms gained during pregnancy will leave very quickly, I can eat right, play sports, I am very active in an active way of life. Now I care about my body with the help of massage. Every day I rub oil into the skin with a special brush to keep it in good shape. So no, I'm not afraid of getting fat, it is very important for me that the baby be healthy, and then everything else. What about Sam? During pregnancy greatly recovered? Quickly after childbirth came in shape?In the first pregnancy gained a lot. With 44 kilograms I recovered to 65. I seemed to myself huge, in other matters, the way it was. It was possible to get in shape one and a half months after delivery, but not in the best way. I decided to get rid of excess weight by refusing to eat, and it is absolutely impossible to do so, now I understand it. Last time I almost went to the hospital with exhaustion. It was possible to lose weight quickly, but the weight gained again, due to improper nutrition, this happens. After unsuccessful experiments, I came to my senses a year later, it took me so much time to restore my metabolism, hormones, and to love my body again. Therefore, based on the bitter experience, I always advise all girls to not hurry anywhere, but to lose weight wisely, without harm to their health. Can you compare the first and second pregnancies? Surely different sensations. Now more and more consciously?The first and second pregnancy are very differentfrom each other. The first time I was kind of careless. I worked a lot then, as I do now, but everything was different. At that time, I made jewelry, sitting in a dark corner with a table lamp. I moved little, suffered from back pain, and ruined my eyesight. In other words, there was a place for stress and worries in my life, and none of this was good for me or my baby. And now my job is connected with constant movement, and I can’t sit in one place. During my first pregnancy, I didn’t have such a relationship with my child. Now I talk to my baby all the time, but back then it seemed like complete idiocy to me. This time, I learned to feel contact with my son and don’t let stress into my life, although this doesn’t always work out due to my impulsive nature.
Really wanted a girl
Photo: @aizalovesamWho did you want more, a boy or a girl?It is already known that I will have a boy, butI really wanted a girl. Apparently God better heard the desire of her husband and sent us a son. I don’t regret it much, I think Dima deserves a heir, but I’m sure to give birth to a daughter too. Have you already started to buy everything you need for a child?Truth be told, we bought nothing at all. If with Sam I scored the whole house with all kinds of “junk” that I never used, then now I calmly relate to all this fuss. There is plenty of time ahead and we will all have time. She allowed herself to order only a cot, she is so beautiful that she could not resist. Where are you planning to give birth in Bali or in Moscow? Maybe there is a third country in mind?We are still thinking about this issue. We consider three options: Bali, Moscow and Los Angeles. The last option like the most, but so far there are doubts on this. I think the time will come, and we will decide where we want to give birth to our baby. Do you plan to raise your son on the island from the first days? How are things going with medicine? No insurance problems? In general, what difficulties are you afraid of in this regard?Of course, we plan to raise the baby in Bali,because our home and all our daily life are here. The medical care on the island is excellent. It is not cheap at all, but it is good. There are no big concerns, in Moscow, in my opinion, there are much more dangers on every corner. Besides, I am giving birth in October, in Russia the cold weather will start, and here in Bali my baby can constantly be in the fresh air and warmth. In my opinion, the island is ideal for raising children.
Photo: @ aizalovesam Planning to hire a nanny for a child?We already have a nanny, she lives with us already sixyears, the second is not planning to hire. Fortunately, there is already a proven person nearby who can help with the house and with the child. Husband will attend childbirth?At the expense of the presence of her husband at birth answer whileI find it difficult, this question remains open for me too. Probably, comin everything, it will be just as it should happen. There is still not known what kind of birth will be, if everything goes naturally, I would not want Dima to witness some moments. In the event that the birth will not be natural, the husband just should not be with me. At past births in the ward, no one except the doctors was with me and everything went quite well. How to prepare Sam for the appearance of the baby?It seems to me that Sam is waiting for the baby more than all of us. He constantly talks to the stomach, checks the program, where it is written how much the child has grown, how much he weighs, and so on. Sam really wants to have a brother. Not afraid that after the appearance of the baby jealousy will arise, the struggle for mother's attention?No, I'm not at all afraid that Sam will be jealous,because it seems to me that this will not happen. My son is used to receiving a lot of love from me, from my father, from Dima, from my grandparents. Therefore, it seems to me that he is already able to give this love. I adhere to the fact that Sam will be very close with his younger brother, from the first days I will give the baby in his arms, I will trust him. Dima and I decided that we want our sons to always support and love each other. You know, once I dreamed of four sons, it seems the dream began to come true. But I still hope on the baby princess.
Swearing with my husband on the topic of names
Photo: @ aizalovesamThere are a couple of prepared names?With the name we have not yet decided. My husband and I swear on the topic of names, so we don’t talk on this topic, but wait for our insight to fall. How does your husband feel about you now? Surely protects and cares even more?My husband cared about me even before the pregnancy.about the main treasure in his life. Now he continues to do it. Dima feeds me, protects me and is very worried when I feel bad. He looks so serious and brutal, but in fact he is sensitive and emotional. Sometimes it seems to me that he is even more scared than me. Therefore, mutual understanding and love prevail between us. Dima is very supportive of me, probably I did not see a happier woman during pregnancy. You can't brag like that, but I was really lucky with my spouse. Reading books on parenting? Maybe there is some technique that you follow?On raising children, I have not read a single book in my entire life and I do not consider it necessary to begin. I believe that every mother has an intuition that you should trust. How much do you want to have children?I'm not going to stop for two, my husband ordered at least three children, I can not disappoint him. I dream that I will have a girl, so we will try to win.
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