The story began corny. I accidentally read the comments under the post in LJ of the famous bloggers. She cried young mothers for depriving their husbands of intimacy, putting the babies to sleep in a common bed. This time I completely shared the opinion of the popular lady. It seems that everything is logical. A small child must sleep in his crib. First, in a dream, anything can happen: I or my husband accidentally turn around, the baby will suffer. Secondly, it's not hygienic, and though you're in the shower, you still have nothing to do in the parent's bed. Thirdly, what kind of dream is there, if I go through the whole night, suddenly I'll do it. Okay, about the sex point missed, the temperament is different, but just keep in mind that the baby in the bed interferes with the relationship. In the comments, the blogger was accused of heartlessness and childlessness. Like, here you are, you will drag the baby to bed yourself. Mom, and for what invented baby cots? You want a cradle, you want with a removable side, which you can put back to the matrimonial box.
Photo:GettyImageThe argument “it’s more convenient to feed” doesn’t work either. “You can even sleep while the baby is eating” – moms, are you out of your mind? What if something goes wrong and you just fall asleep? But in response to any comment against co-sleeping and uncontrolled night feedings, moms unite and attack the critics. They say that the baby should, and simply must, be close to the parents. That way, he will feel protected, warmed by the warmth of your bodies, and will definitely grow up to be a genius. And those who went to their own cribs and cradles will at least lag behind in development, and at most, develop a mental illness. Don’t breastfeed? Keep quiet! Keep quiet, otherwise you will be inundated with condemning comments. No milk? What nonsense, because they had it and still have it. You are just a lazy mother who wants to kill her baby. Or doom him to a life without immunity. Now I look at my mother with suspicion, does she really love me? She raised me on cow's milk with oatmeal added. I seem to have my bearings in space, I graduated from school with a gold medal, I work, I can tell a Monet from a Manet. But still, a worm of doubt gnaws at me, if my mother could establish breastfeeding as easily and naturally as they describe on the forums, the Nobel Prize would already be in my pocket. Did you buy a pacifier for your baby? The forums recommend shooting people like you right at the exit of the store. Because again there is a threat of mental retardation coupled with a disgusting bite. In general, if you do something wrong, according to the regulars of mother's forums, then in any case your child will grow up inferior - I realized this on the third day of browsing numerous topics in the online chat. Did the gynecologist prescribe medication? Throw away the prescription. Blood test is bad, ultrasound shows pathology? The lab made a mistake, the doctor is an idiot, but a friend of a friend had a healthy baby. Did you buy a newfangled stroller? You are a monster, you can leave the baby without a spine, because the wheels have to be gigantic, inflatable, the cradle is also preferably gigantic and weighs about thirty kilograms. Can't you drag it home? And who has it easy these days. You are a mother, and you have to endure hardships. There has already been talk about co-sleeping. That is also terrible. I, while waiting, thought that the birth of a child is not a reason to bury yourself in diapers. But on the forums they explained that otherwise I will be a bad mother and nothing good will come of my child.
