"Sons, like all boys, often quarrel,argue, fight. But when one of them is in danger, another shows something high, fraternal, "Xenia shared with Woman's Day. - Despite the busyness, I try to walk with children regularly. Program minimum: visit attractions and cinema, maximum: spend several hours in the park Gorky, Kolomna or Tsaritsyno. On walks I do not sit on the bench. I myself get up on the scooter and drive with Miron and Bogdanom.Pri this I'm a terrible alarmist, do not let my sons away from me a single step. The fault of all this is our forced separation (in 2011 the former husband of the singer Andrei Sereda kidnapped the children and lived with them in England for 9 months.) - Antenna note. I always have an excessive alarm mode. Despite the protests and cries of children: "Mom, we are already big," I hold their hands all the time. From the outside, it may seem that I'm the mother of one-year-olds, not boys of 6 and 8. "The parents and Lesha (husband of the singer." - Antennas note) are being chastised for this, asking me to calm down. But so far I can not do it. It seems that boys everywhere are in danger. They run, jump, often fight ... Something high, fraternal is shown only when one of them is in danger. Then they stand up for each other. And they argue, complain, one tries to blacken the other, in order to look better on its background. It is very important to interfere in their quarrels. Sometimes I observe from the side, and sometimes I participate in the resolution of the conflict. Comes to ridiculous. To find the culprit, I am organizing an investigation. I sit down in the room and take turns calling the children. Then I spend a confrontation. The blessing with children while the method "look in eyes" works. Whoever looks away, he speaks untruth. When the guilty party is found, we pass a verdict. Recently we have a whole "trial" took place, where I played the role of jurymen, Lesha and my parents. By the way, effective punishment for children is not easy to come up with, it is with the encouragement of problems does not arise. Previously, for the offenses deprived boys of gadgets and sweets for a certain time. Do not listen - a week without a tablet, you argue - one more. We realized that this system does not work when the sanctions were approaching the year. Now we have an innovation. We bought a special list for the elder, Miron, for fixing the material passed for the first class, and Bogdan for the same, but for pre-school children. And as a fine for bad behavior, the guys do the exercises in these notebooks. And for development is useful, and disciplines well. But, perhaps, the most severe punishment for them is the insult of the mother. Recently, after another disassembly, I told my sons: you have upset me very much. I stopped talking to them, closed myself in the bathroom. So the children grabbed my favorite currant and stood with her under the door, asked: "Mommy, well, answer us, please." How can I not forgive? I love my sons of course equally. It's just that at some point someone is touching me more. For example, Bogdan nashkodit and make such a touching mug that I can not even scold him. Myron, seeing this, is offended: "Why do you forgive him, but I do not?" Although recently the eldest son behaves like an adult. Do not cry, do not hysterical. Maybe even something noble to yield to Bogdan. With Alexei, our ideas about the upbringing of children do not always coincide. Like all men, he supports more stringent measures. Often argue with him, it happens, roughly. But still in the end we arrive at a common denominator. In general, he perfectly joined the team of Bogdan and Myron. The husband himself is like a child, that's why they speak the same language with their children. Although they call him Lesha at personal intercourse, he is daddy for eyes. The senior here the other day said: "I am Miron Alexeyevich." And I do not press my sons at all, just watch. I see that they want to call him dad in person, just shy for now.
