The heroine of this story has always been stereotyped,that is, a bad relationship with her mother in law, which, she hoped, will improve with the appearance of children. Unfortunately, it did not happen. Moreover, during the natural feeding the mother-in-law began to tell her absolutely terrible things in her face.
1. "What are you doing?"
The heroine believes that it was obvious to everyone anyway,What she does: Puts a hungry baby to her breast. There's nothing shocking about that. Yet her mother-in-law felt the need to rudely announce it to everyone at Thanksgiving dinner.
2. "Cover them"
Because of this remark, the heroine feltnot a person, but a thing. And she answered her mother-in-law that she was feeding her grandchildren and would not cover anything up, no matter how disgusted she was and no matter how loudly she expressed her indignation.
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3. "What is your size now?"
This question drove the heroine crazy.She had no intention of discussing the changes in her body during pregnancy and breastfeeding with anyone. Always wrapped up and sleepy, she was still a person, not just a parent, and she guarded her personal space.
4. "What if they see you?"
This question confused the heroine, althoughIt would be more correct to ask why others were eager to see her breasts when she was feeding her child. The mother-in-law specifically pointed to her husband's strange uncle and little nephew and emphasized that she should not feed in their presence, especially at the Christmas table.
5. "My son also adored his chest"
This was too much!
6. "I thought you did not have enough milk"
It's very strange to discuss how much milk your daughter-in-law has in front of other people. The heroine had to stutter and find some reasonable explanation for this fact, and then cry all day.
7. "Why do not you just go on artificial food?"
The heroine gradually transferred her son to artificial feeding, but she did not do it right away and in secret from her mother-in-law, believing that it did not concern her.
8. "Why do not you do it in a public toilet?"
The heroine believes that there is no worse place forfeeding than a public toilet. So she refused and thought it was very strange that her mother-in-law would suggest that she feed the baby when someone was doing their natural needs nearby, just so that no one would see her nipples.
