Being a parent is a huge responsibility. According to statistics, more than 80% of children, having grown up, adhere to the same habits that existed in the family. If mom and dad want to bring up positive qualities in a child, you need to look at yourself and make sure that these traits are inherent in the parents themselves. We always need to start with ourselves! We bring to your attention the top 10 things that you can not do with children.Photo: Getty Images

Ban number 1: you can not violate safety rules

Let's start with the rules of the road. Under no circumstances in the eyes of the child (and indeed) do not cross the road to a red traffic light! More often parents, running around with the child roadway in the wrong place or not having waited for the green, are justified: "We can not go to the red light, but now we are in a great hurry. I looked carefully (a) on the road, the cars are not around. " All! The clear line of the ban is erased. Be sure that the child will now do the same. The same applies to other safety rules: handling of electrical appliances, stove, gas, sockets, hot water.

Ban number 2: you can not lie

Lying should not be even the smallest. The children are very attentive, they all notice, remember and draw conclusions. For example, Mom or Dad was asked to answer by phone that they are not at home - it would seem, well, here it is: there is no mood or there is no time to talk with someone. But at this moment you show the child that it is not so bad to cheat. Or, for example, the pope has done something and agrees with his son or daughter: "And let's not tell mom!" And then the kid realized that from parents can something and hide.Photo: Getty Images

Ban number 3: you can not drink and smoke

No persuasion will force a boy or girlquit smoking, if in his / her family smoking was the norm. Ever since childhood, looking at his beloved parents, the child has learned that there is nothing wrong with smoking, since the closest and beloved people do not deny themselves a cigarette. Therefore, if you want to avoid problems with bad habits of your child - do not show him a bad example.

Ban number 4: you can not threaten

"I'll leave you here now, if you ..." "I'm leaving,if you ... "" If you do it again, you'll get me! .. "With these phrases we provoke the child's fear and teach him to manipulate. Threats are completely useless - they do not improve behavior. Always give children the confidence that their mother will be around, that they are loved. Never tell them that you leave them. Do not use this technique to achieve your goal.Photo: iStock / Gettyimages.ru

Ban number 5: you can not use obscene words

Words that break in hearts, words-habitsvery often they become children's habits. My father dropped a heavy object on the floor and cursed through his teeth. My mother finds out the relationship with the neighbor and does not skimp on the expression. Here a friend tells an anecdote, disregarding the fact that the baby is nearby. And after all the child so wants to be similar to mum, on the daddy and even on this uncle, because they are adults. And he remembers and repeats the words he hears. It is much more difficult for a child to wean the child of a bad habit and explain why it is impossible to use such words, than to simply take the rule to watch his speech.

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