Olga BudinaA photo: Vladimir Vasilchikov / "Antenna" Since I raise a child alone, of course, I have to be a strict mother, - says Olga. "But at the same time, I can not always be harsh." When I understand that the moment has come and I need to show rigor, I Naumu say: "So, now I will be your dad!" And begin to sand it. After the suggestions are made, I say: "Well, everything, and now I'm Mom. Come here, I will pity you. " And if I sometimes raise my voice to him, and the child realizes that I'm getting angry, he says: "You look like the Hulk now." I say: "Yes, now I'm an evil and unpredictable Hulk (a superhero who, turning into anger, turns into a monster." - Note "Antennas"), I'll take a club and I'll pound you. " Naum immediately understands that he has gone too far and needs to be quickly corrected, begins to engage in or collect toys. So you can even turn this strict upbringing into a game. Also there is another way. Naturally, all children love their parents, so sometimes I say: "If you behave badly, they will make a remark to me that I have not raised you well. Do you want to be scolded? "Of course Naum replies that he does not. These are also effective methods. I find different approaches, but I always say it, explain why it is impossible, why it is possible, why it is good or bad. I think it is completely wrong when parents order: "Take and do, without questions." Then the child feels like an absolute fool and does not understand why it is necessary in his life. And when he understands, then he joins himself and will also help you.

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