Indigo child symptoms

The main feature that distinguishes a baby indigo -his unshakable confidence in himself and his own worth. They seem to be sure that they are different from other people, they are special. Such kids behave as if they carry some knowledge that is inaccessible to others. They reason like adults, which causes both admiration and respect.If you know what it means - Indigo children, it's easierfind them an approach. Photo: Getty But this self-confidence also has the opposite side. They so consider themselves to be flawless, that when someone evaluates them differently or does not accept their "regal", they are lost. The more such collisions of a person of high self-esteem with reality - the more he closes in himself. Therefore, another feature of an indigo child is loneliness. They do not recognize any authorities and rules.

How to determine that your child is an indigo

Take a good look at your baby. If from an early age you notice in him such qualities, most likely, he is a "special" indigo:

• "Regal" behavior - the kid strongly emphasizes that he is higher, more important than others. He is surprised if someone does not agree with this.
• Nobody takes for credibility and is guided solely by one's own ideas about what and how to do.
• He does not like to follow conservative systems and go in well-trodden ways. It breaks traditions and rules.
• Does not communicate with those who are not the same as he. Prefer loneliness if there are no people with the same worldview.

There are other traits of character. But these are basic. Such a child is immediately noticeable, it stands out among peers.

How to bring up such children

Respect for the person, freedom of choice and creativeapproach - these are the three whales on which indigo education should be built. You can not humiliate him and force him to do something in an orderly manner. If you need to achieve something from the baby - explain to him on an equal footing what you want and why it should be so. Listen to his point of view. Give him the opportunity to make his choice and even make a mistake and look at the consequences of his deed. Despite the fact that indigo requires a relationship as an adult, they are not yet ready to fulfill adult responsibilities and be responsible for their decisions. Like all children, they need the opportunity to play, move and attach to something their irrepressible creative energy. Give them this opportunity. If you are ready to build partnerships in the family and listen to the opinion of a small person, he will open the door to a new unusual world. Indigo perceive and evaluate the world in a different way, and they will gladly share their wisdom with you.

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