The number of divorces is rising across the country, andalong with it – a decline in the birth rate and the devaluation of the institution of the family as such. What to do, what to do, sociologists, psychologists and politicians are pondering. In the meantime… While a new generation is growing up, which has every chance of supporting the “child free” trend. Why? Let us explain. The other day, a resident of Krasnoyarsk, Andrei Zberovsky, posted the following poem online: “All mothers live such a boring life: they wash, iron, cook. And they are not invited to the Christmas tree, they are not given presents. When I grow up, I will also be a mother. But only a single mother, not a man’s lady. I will buy a new coat to match the color of the crimson hat. And I will never, under any circumstances, marry my dad!” Funny? Funny. But not to the owner of the page. It turns out that this poem was given to his five-year-old daughter Agatha so that she would learn it for Mother’s Day! - Honestly, I read it and was shocked. At a time when the country is talking about a family crisis, at the kindergarten level children are given poems that are aimed at forming a negative attitude towards the family. Tomorrow I will find out in the kindergarten who chose such an anti-family poem, - the father was indignant. Did you pay attention to the wording? Andrey Zberovsky is a practicing family psychologist and knows what he is talking about. He found the teacher who chose the "hymn to female loneliness" for the child. But she did not share his indignation: in her opinion, the poem is just humor. And if the parents do not like something, then Agatha will be suspended from participating in the holiday. The poem will still be heard - just performed by someone else. - Agatha was very upset that she would not be able to read the poem to her mother. I offered to find another poem for the child myself, but Lyudmila Vasilyevna was adamant. If you do not like the poem, you will be without a poem at all. After that, I was forced to ask the head of the kindergarten, Tatyana Borisovna, for an explanation of this situation, - says Andrey. The head was not so categorical and promised to look into the situation. In the meantime, the media got involved. There was no choice: both the head and the teacher preferred to apologize and replace the poem with a more appropriate one - for the occasion and age. - I am sure that the administration of kindergartens and teachers should form in children the correct attitudes towards the value of family, and not portray it as a horror, instead of which it is better not to marry dads. For those who also think that this poem is positive, I inform you that in the process of learning, the daughter asked her mother: is it really better not to marry dads?! - Andrey Zberovsky summarizes. By the way, the author of the poem is the famous bard Vadim Egorov. His creative baggage includes many wonderful songs: "I love you, my rains", "Monologue of a son". Sometimes Vadim Vladimirovich wrote satirical poems. But he did not have any children's songs or poems. So it is unlikely that he imagined that his frank satirical poem would end up in the script of a children's matinee.

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