- Imagine, a week did not pass in the kindergarten,again we sit at home with ARVI, - Ira frustratedly corrects the scarf on the throat of the quiet Timofey. He really grows boy morbid. Tim's medical card is similar to the two-volume edition of Alexander Dumas's works. "I do not understand why the sores stick to him like that." - in the voice of Ira I hear immense fatigue. As described by Woman's Day family and age psychologist, writer Katerina Murashova, the problem can be not only in the weak physical health of the baby. Simply there are such children who constantly pick up any illness or disease. Moms rush with them on doctors, buy countless immunostimulants, but sores do not stop. In what here there can be a business?Photo: iStock / Gettyimages.ru

Basis of the basics

It happens that the child is really weakhealth - chronic, and even congenital diseases, genetic predisposition. But more often in ailments unfavorable living conditions are to blame. For example, the dad smokes in an apartment, and the grandmother in a frost keeps windows open. What to do? Create a healthy environment in the house, and to strengthen immunity remember about hardening, vitamins, proper nutrition and walking in the fresh air.

The habit of curing

This is hard to believe, but many children with a thickThe hospital card is patients who are being healed. Yes, some parents subconsciously need sick children. At the heart of the situation is usually a real ailment. For example, a child was born before the term, he was nursed. The life of the family was subordinated to the struggle for the health of the baby. Efforts brought fruit - the child was cured or outgrown infantile ailments, but the habit of considering it painful remained. And the baby is guarded: they are not allowed into the garden because of allegedly useless immunity, they do not write to the sports section, because the child is weak. And ... heal! They examine and find at least something that could be "corrected". Just like in the book "Bury me behind the plinth." The child gets a list of let and not dangerous, but diagnoses, and my mother continues to heroically dedicate his life to him. What should I do? Stop looking for mythical diseases. Find a better hobby - a more enjoyable and rewarding lesson.

Disease as a bonus

And it happens so. Whenever the mother is going to send the baby with an overnight stay to the grandmother, his temperature rises. Parents put the child to bed and leave the house. Or, after a cured foot injury, the crumb continues to limp. Why is it so? The kid realized that during the illness he was allowed a lot. What to do? Emphasize that it is bad to be ill. Do not use sweet syrups (a bitter drug) for treatment, forbid watching cartoons (the patient gets tired eyes), do not allow meeting with friends (during treatment lie in bed). So you will create a stimulus for the child to recover quickly. And no, it's not at all cruel.

Secret Relationships

There is another phenomenon - the so-called schooldisease. For example, one child in the class has a real gastritis, but five more complain of abdominal pain during classes. Children actually experience unpleasant symptoms, although they will not be found during a gastritis examination. The disease is caused by psychological reasons. Psychosomatics in pure form. What should I do? Hold an investigation. Does the child have a leg ache before classes in the sports section? Do he need training? Do you know exactly what is happening in the gym? If a schoolboy dizzy before every control in mathematics, perhaps just need lessons with a tutor? Approximately 80 percent of similar situations are resolved if parents have shown observation. Also interesting:

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