How to communicate with a teenager of 12-17 years old
At this age, a child is aware of hisindividuality. He overestimates himself and not in the best way. Add to this hormonal and physical changes. The mood changes, and the child himself does not understand why. Neuroses and depressions often appear. At this age, fears of communication and complexes also appear.Friendliness and openness are the main thingsrules for communicating with a girl. Photo: GettyTalk to your child about sex life if you don't want teenagers from the street to be your teachers. The basic rules of communication are as follows:
- more often praise the child, even for small things;
- be considerate and considerate;
- speak kindly and openly;
- more often wonder what happens in the life of the child;
- do not take offense at monosyllabic answers;
- Do not judge or be irritated;
- share your own plans with them.
Make communication with your child regular, but not intrusive.
How to communicate with my son
In boys, during adolescence, things changethe voice becomes more squeaky or rough. The skin becomes problematic, but he does not know how to take care of it and how to help himself. In addition to acne, the first facial hair appears. Boys become lanky and awkward. At this time, back problems and slouching arise. Boys spend more time with friends than with their parents. It seems to the teenager that they understand him better than you. A father who supports his son will be of great help. It is important to tell him that he is not unique and that his father also had similar changes. However, they can be dealt with. It is important to take an interest in the child's hobbies and, if possible, help him realize them. You can buy and give him a gym membership or a new snowboard.
How parents talk to a girl
The girl is particularly tormented by physiologicalchanges: problem skin, oily hair, swelling breasts. A loving mother can explain that this is all temporary and that her daughter remains just as beautiful. Choose suitable cosmetics, make an appointment with a beautician. Try to instill a love of sports in her to get rid of slouching. Ask your daughter for advice on her makeup or clothes. Be prepared to hear criticism. However, this is a great opportunity to establish contact and have a heart-to-heart talk. Keep in mind that you cannot change your child. However, you can change yourself and help him.