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How to avoid scandal with relatives
, unfortunately, not uncommon. Often behind them is the unsettled life or the conflict of generations when adults live together with their parents. Two mistresses (mother and daughter) can not get along in the kitchen, and the father and the brother-in-law can not share the territory and spheres of influence. A universal prescription for avoiding scandals in the family does not exist, but, knowing small tricks, you can extinguish the flames of a beginning quarrel with your relatives , until love, respect and understanding have burned in it · Go to concessions in the details, but stand on your own with global decisions · Weigh every word that you want to say in a state of irritation, fatigue or anger · If there is an opportunity to leave the source scandal e this. Go out to the kitchen, balcony, to another room - save a lot of nerve cells and energy. These simple truths help those who want to live peacefully and peacefully with family members. Try and you.
How to avoid scandal with her husband
Quarrels with her husband sometimes lead to "finding outrelations "and even needed to shake and revive the old feelings. However, if this happens often, you need to think about who and under what conditions become the instigator of scandals, you or your husband. On which front do your fights go: life, material problems, children and upbringing, or maybe jealousy? When the cause is determined, it is easier to understand yourself and the relationship. Family well-being stands on three pillars: respect and love, mutual understanding, empathy (the term psychology, meaning empathy, sympathy, putting yourself in the place of another) .Material difficulties, life and the rest of the family troubles can be overcome if one respects the opinion of each other, sympathizes and compromises both spouses. Separately, I want to say about jealousy. This pathological feeling sometimes ruins strong families, and even at all leads to tragedies. Often it is jealousy that causes family scandals with her husband. You can get rid of this problem. They are jealous of their husbands who are not sure about it, but in themselves. Prove your man that he is the best for you, constantly talking about it. Confident in yourself and in your feelings for him, the man will not be jealous, and hence scandals on this matter will cease. Scandals and quarrels happen in any family, the main thing is to be able to take lessons and give in to each other.
