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How to avoid scandal with relatives
, unfortunately, is not uncommon.Often, they are caused by an unsettled life or a generational conflict when adult children live together with their parents. Two housewives (mother and daughter) cannot get along in the kitchen, and a father and son-in-law cannot divide the territory and spheres of influence. There is no universal recipe for how to avoid scandals in the family, but knowing a few tricks, you can put out the flame of a budding quarrel with your family before love, respect and mutual understanding burn out. Make concessions in small things, but stand your ground when making global decisions. Weigh every word you want to say in a state of irritation, fatigue or anger. If it is possible to get away from the source of the scandal, do it. Go to the kitchen, the balcony, another room - you will save a lot of nerve cells and energy. These simple truths help those who want to live calmly and peacefully with family members. Try it too.
How to avoid scandal with her husband
Quarrels with your husband sometimes lead to a "showdown"relationships" and are even needed to shake up and revive old feelings. However, if this happens often, you need to think about who and under what conditions becomes the instigator of scandals, you or your husband. On what front are your battles going: everyday life, financial problems, children and upbringing, or maybe jealousy? When the reason is determined, it is easier to understand yourself and the relationship. Family well-being rests on three pillars: respect and love, mutual understanding, empathy (a psychological term meaning the ability to empathize, sympathize, put yourself in someone else's shoes). Financial difficulties, everyday life and other family troubles can be overcome if you respect each other's opinions, sympathize and compromise with both spouses. Separately, I would like to say about jealousy. This pathological feeling sometimes destroys strong families, and sometimes even leads to tragedies. Often, it is jealousy that becomes the cause of family scandals with a husband. You can get rid of this problem. Those husbands who are not confident in their wives, but in themselves, are jealous of their wives. Prove to your man that he is the best for you, talk about it constantly. A man who is confident in himself and in your feelings for him will not be jealous, and therefore, scandals about this will stop. Scandals and quarrels happen in any family, the main thing is to be able to learn lessons and give in to each other.
