Features of education of the adopted child

In any institution where children are brought upchildren, there is a strict daily routine. There is no need to change it abruptly. Ask the teachers what in the routine the baby did not like. If he did not like to go to bed early, let him fall asleep a little later at home. Also, do not rush to give the child toys. Take the baby's favorite toy from the orphanage, so that he will feel calmer.raising a foster childRaising an adopted child is challenging, butpleasant process Photo: Getty No matter how much you want to please the baby, at first do not overwhelm him with impressions. You do not need to immediately take him to the zoo, the circus, to a cafe and meet all the relatives. Add impressions little by little. On the contrary, all that an adopted child needs is to spend as much time as possible with his parents. Find out in advance what the child liked and did not like to eat. Do not force-feed him fruits, fish, greens, no matter how healthy they are. Most likely, the baby will be wary of unfamiliar products. Give the child what he knows and loves, but do not overfeed him with his favorite foods, so as not to get diathesis. Everything is good in moderation.

Mistakes in raising a foster child

Here are the most common mistakes adoptive parents make:

  • They expect endless gratitude for taking the child from the orphanage.
  • They expect that the child will completely translate the interests of the parents and their views on life.
  • They treat the child as an inferior person who can be completely “remade”.
  • Shift the education of the child on the teachers or educators in kindergartens.
  • They use the child as a "bank" into which they invest love and care, solely to get something in return.

Avoid these mistakes to get started as quickly as possible.establish a connection with the baby. There will be problems with raising an adopted child, no matter how well you prepare for the moment he or she comes home. No one is immune from mistakes and you should not rely only on yourself in this situation. If you feel that something is going wrong, it is better to seek advice from a professional psychologist.

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