Why do not you need senior advice like that?follow and form the attachment between mother and child in the first three months after birth, Woman's Day was told by Tatyana Aptulayeva, a practicing psychologist, author of the bestselling book about pregnancy and preparation for childbirth "Mother and Child. Encyclopedia of happy motherhood "and books about the development of the child.Tatiana AptulaevaPhoto: Once upon a distant August day five years ago, coming back from a walk, I distinctly felt that the stroller, which I used to drive in the parks for the second month for 2-3 hours every day, is exactly my own big belly. He just broke away, and I shake it at a stretch. And in it - a daughter of three weeks old. And I was sure that my pregnancy was miraculously continuing. It touched me, touched and cheered. But from the point of view of attachment theory, this feeling was psychologically absolutely accurate.

Sensor system

Photo:Getty ImagesThe fourth trimester of pregnancy is a beautiful poetic metaphor for the first three months after childbirth. More prosaically, this same period is called adaptation - the time when both mother and newborn master and get used to a new way of interacting, communicating, understanding and feeling each other, not only at the level of internal bodily sensations. From the very first moment after childbirth, the entire sensory system is fully activated, and the two begin to recognize and feel each other. Now they see, hear, touch each other, feel the smell, warmth, the baby tries the taste of milk for the first time. The most amazing thing is that this communication and recognition occurs without a single word. Simply because the newborn does not have them yet. In the first three months after the birth of a child, a woman experiences that amazing state when she feels a particularly close connection with him. With a harmonious perception of her pregnancy and motherhood, this is a natural strong desire to maintain a physical and emotional connection, expressing it in love and care. This deep need, full of tenderness and affection for the baby, contains completely practical tasks that are aimed at its harmonious, complete physical and psychological development. If not for one but…

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