Boy wears dresses - what to do

Megan Fox, Charlize Theron, Angelina Jolie - theirunites not only the profession, but also that their children prefer clothes of the opposite sex. Stars rarely comment on the appearance of a son in a skirt or daughter in a men's suit in public. They just think that there is nothing wrong with that. But for most, this behavior of the child is nonsense. And the fact that the parents indulge the child, generally shock. Kristal Kells is not as famous as Angelina Jolie or Charlize Theron. But the situation is similar. In the family, Kristal grows up a son. Sihanu is now five years old. And sometimes he dresses up in a skirt or a dress. Even a ballet tutu can wear. The reaction of society is quite obvious. Therefore, Crystal decided once and for all to clarify the situation by writing an open letter about the inclinations of her son. We decided to share her opinion with our readers.Photo: kellsnaturalphotography."Being a parent means for everyone its own. For me it means loving someone more than anyone else in the world. It means educating a child to make him better than you. Encourage him. Respect. When you become a parent, you change. Sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse. My son has changed me for the better. I want to be an example for my son. I want my son to grow up knowing that his opinion matters. To know what he can do, what he likes and be what he wants to be in this world. I want him to have enough confidence to express himself. Love yourself. And I do it for my son. My son Sian loves to wear dresses. He also likes to put on a cloak and portray a superhero. He loves Iron Man, "Puppy Patrol", plays cars and makes himself a haircut to look like other men around him.Photo: kellsnaturalphotography.My son is a boy. He knows that he is a boy. He knows what girls differ from a boy physiologically. But his sex does not matter when it comes to what to play and what to wear. My husband and I raise him without gender stereotypes. We never told him anything like "The boys do not cry" or "You act like a girl". And I never say. I know that my approach is unconventional. I know that many will disagree with me. But I do not expect this. I wait for respect. I do not do worse to my child. People should understand that Sian is happy, and this is the only thing that matters. He knows that he can love himself and express himself without shame. He knows that I and his father will love him, no matter what.Photo: kellsnaturalphotography.I'm not only a parent that my child needs. I am the parent I want to be. Sian is not a transgender. Sometimes he says that today he wants to be a girl. We reply that when he grows up, he will be able to decide for himself what he can be. But he is five years old. He wants to be a Mermaid and an Iron Man. And we just accept it as it is. Maybe he really decides to change the floor. Maybe, in a few years it will seem childish stupidity. I repeat: the most important thing for us is the health and happiness of our son.Photo: kellsnaturalphotography.com