A holiday for parents and children took place on the Don. Mothers, fathers and children took part in the competition "An apple from an apple tree". You can get acquainted with the rules of the competition.

Julia Bespalova, daughter Daria (7 years)

A photo: "My baby" / Catherine Zheleznyakova What do you look like, except for clothes? Dasha and I have similar temperament and character: she is just as active, restless, cheerful. The daughter likes to repeat after her mother, to dress up, to twist her hair, to braid her braids. How to persuade the child here and now? To promise her a tasty treat: ice cream, chocolate, pizza, going to a cafe that she likes. 3 “not allowed” and 3 “can” in education. You can not fight and quarrel. You can not be late. You can not be capricious. Always allowed to be fun and positive. It is always possible and necessary to be neat. You can always remain a child - despite my taboos, all my “for” and “against” interrupts her desire to be just a child. Therefore, all the tricks of my daughter in the end I accept.

Svetlana Batrutdinova, daughter Barbara (8 months)

A photo: "My baby" / Marina KovalenkoWhat do you look like, except for clothes? At such a young age, I can say that while with Barbara we are only like eyes - we are both black-eyed. How can I persuade a child here and now? It’s too early to talk at length with her, but if you say her name in a serious tone, she thinks about it, and during this period you can do everything your mother needs. If the daughter begins to act up, we begin to distract her. So far, the best means of distraction are the console and the telephone. 3 “It’s impossible” and 3 “It’s possible” in upbringing. They thought for a long time, but they turned out to be only two for the time being: not to jump out of bed and not to eat cat food - several times the daughter was noticed for this business. And about "you can always" - this is all the rest. At this age, she can do anything.

Tatyana Burko, daughter Love (5 years)

A photo: "My baby" / Catherine Zheleznyakova What do you look like, except for clothes? We are both red. To be honest, Anyone and I are more different than similar. Daughter took daddy's features. But we have with her a common love for cats: the daughter loves our pet, Timmy's Bengal cat, very much. She feeds him, bathes him - the cat is happy to do it. How can I persuade a child here and now? We have no such problems. If I said that now we cannot do something, but, for example, we will succeed in doing it tomorrow, and the daughter happily agrees. We have a full understanding with her. 3 "It is impossible" and 3 "It is possible" in education. You cannot leave alone without your mother, you can not eat in the evening, hours after 20:00, because of the tendency to be overweight, we observe the regime, you can not leave scattered toys. Until the daughter cleans up after me, I do not allow her to do other things. Regarding always permitted - I do not forbid to watch her cartoons. Fortunately, the daughter does not watch them more than a couple of episodes. You can always have a snack in the framework of a specified time. And you can always bring friends.

Julia Prudnikova, son Maxim (3.5 years)

A photo: "My baby" / Marina KovalenkoWhat do you look like, except for clothes? He is the same as I, sociable, cheerful, loves the scene. He has been involved in various groups since childhood, dances, as I do, participates in competitions. How to persuade a child here and now? In such cases, if he does not agree to my request, I say that otherwise I will be upset that I will be sad. Or I can promise to reduce to a children's developmental platform. 3 “It’s impossible” and 3 “It’s possible” in upbringing. You can not let go of her mother's hand on the street. You can't climb on the windowsills - we removed all the handles from the frames, worrying about its safety. It is impossible to communicate with strangers without a mother, even if under the supervision of neighbors or acquaintances. You can always eat in bed. Once I tried to fight it, but I realized that it was useless, and eventually I stopped. You can watch cartoons. You can do a lot with kinetic sand. This is a very useful type of activity for small children. Therefore, I vacuum several times a day and periodically buy new sand again.

Alena Aliyeva, daughter Ekaterina (6 years)

A photo: "My baby" / Catherine Zheleznyakova What do you look like, except for clothes? We are like temperament. We both quickly flare up and quickly depart. Both are musical: always humming melodies, love to create a holiday around us, dance, have fun. How to persuade a child here and now? Probably, you need to talk to your daughter, as an adult, to explain to her why I ask to do something and what will happen if this is not done. I think that it is impossible to communicate with her on an equal basis. 3 “It is impossible” and 3 “It is possible” in upbringing. Do not eat a lot of sweet - 1−2 sweets for tea, do not watch a lot of TV - 30 minutes. But there are exceptions if the full-length tape is on, up to 2 hours Do not talk to strangers and do not go anywhere with them. And you can always do her favorite activities - for example, go to a dance or draw. And the rest is all that does not harm the child, everything that develops it, you can always: take a walk, ride a roller, go to the movies. The main thing is to allow time.

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