Ball of the family. Rostov 2016: photos

On Don, there was a holiday for parents and children. Moms, dads and children took part in the competition "Apple from Apple". You can get acquainted with the rules of the competition.

Julia Bespalova, daughter Daria (7 years)

A photo: "My baby" / Catherine Zheleznyakova What do you look like, except for clothes? Dasha and I have similar temperament and character: she is just as active, restless, cheerful. The daughter likes to repeat after her mother, to dress up, to twist her hair, to braid her braids. How to persuade the child here and now? To promise her a tasty treat: ice cream, chocolate, pizza, going to a cafe that she likes. 3 “not allowed” and 3 “can” in education. You can not fight and quarrel. You can not be late. You can not be capricious. Always allowed to be fun and positive. It is always possible and necessary to be neat. You can always remain a child - despite my taboos, all my “for” and “against” interrupts her desire to be just a child. Therefore, all the tricks of my daughter in the end I accept.

Svetlana Batrutdinova, daughter Barbara (8 months)

Photo:"My Baby"/Marina KovalenkoHow are you similar, except for your outfits? At such a young age, I can say that for now Varvara and I are similar only in our eyes - we both have dark eyes.How to persuade a child here and now? It is too early to talk to her in detail, but if you say her name in a serious tone, she will think, and during this period you can do everything that a mother needs. If our daughter starts to be capricious, we begin to distract her. So far, the best means of distraction are the remote control and the phone.3 "no" and 3 "yes" in parenting. We thought for a long time, but there were only two of them so far: do not jump out of bed and do not eat cat food - my daughter was caught doing this several times. And about "you can always" - that's everything else. At this age, she can do everything.

Tatyana Burko, daughter Love (5 years)

A photo: "My baby" / Catherine Zheleznyakova What do you look like, except for clothes? We are both red. To be honest, Anyone and I are more different than similar. Daughter took daddy's features. But we have with her a common love for cats: the daughter loves our pet, Timmy's Bengal cat, very much. She feeds him, bathes him - the cat is happy to do it. How can I persuade a child here and now? We have no such problems. If I said that now we cannot do something, but, for example, we will succeed in doing it tomorrow, and the daughter happily agrees. We have a full understanding with her. 3 "It is impossible" and 3 "It is possible" in education. You cannot leave alone without your mother, you can not eat in the evening, hours after 20:00, because of the tendency to be overweight, we observe the regime, you can not leave scattered toys. Until the daughter cleans up after me, I do not allow her to do other things. Regarding always permitted - I do not forbid to watch her cartoons. Fortunately, the daughter does not watch them more than a couple of episodes. You can always have a snack in the framework of a specified time. And you can always bring friends.

Julia Prudnikova, son Maxim (3.5 years)

A photo: "My baby" / Marina KovalenkoWhat do you look like, except for clothes? He is the same as I, sociable, cheerful, loves the scene. He has been involved in various groups since childhood, dances, as I do, participates in competitions. How to persuade a child here and now? In such cases, if he does not agree to my request, I say that otherwise I will be upset that I will be sad. Or I can promise to reduce to a children's developmental platform. 3 “It’s impossible” and 3 “It’s possible” in upbringing. You can not let go of her mother's hand on the street. You can't climb on the windowsills - we removed all the handles from the frames, worrying about its safety. It is impossible to communicate with strangers without a mother, even if under the supervision of neighbors or acquaintances. You can always eat in bed. Once I tried to fight it, but I realized that it was useless, and eventually I stopped. You can watch cartoons. You can do a lot with kinetic sand. This is a very useful type of activity for small children. Therefore, I vacuum several times a day and periodically buy new sand again.

Alena Aliyeva, daughter Ekaterina (6 years)

Photo:"My Baby" / Ekaterina Zheleznyakova How are you similar, except for your outfits? We have similar temperaments. We both flare up quickly and cool down quickly. We are both musical: we always hum melodies, we love to create a holiday around us, dance, have fun. How to persuade a child here and now? Probably, you need to talk to your daughter as an adult, explain to her why I ask her to do something and what will happen if she doesn’t do it. I think that I should communicate with her as an equal. 3 “no” and 3 “yes” in parenting. Don’t eat a lot of sweets - 1-2 candies with tea, don’t watch a lot of TV - about 30 minutes. But there are exceptions, if a full-length film is on, up to 2 hours. Don’t talk to strangers and don’t go anywhere with them. Or you can always do her favorite things - for example, go dancing or draw. And the rest - everything that does not harm the child, everything that develops her, is always possible: go for a walk, rollerblade, go to the cinema. The main thing is that time allows.