Causes of bad behavior
The child becomes a school violatordiscipline gradually, so it is important to notice changes in his behavior in time. These may be comments from teachers at a parent-teacher meeting that the child is inattentive, is busy with other things in class, does not do homework. After making claims, it is imperative to talk to the child, otherwise he will feel unpunished.Bad behavior at school can be caused by boys and girlsPhoto: Getty There are several reasons why a boy or girl might behave badly at school:
- The desire to be a leader. Courage, independence and disobedience are the main ways to express your character.
- Lack of interest in learning. School items to the child are uninteresting, but that soon time passes, he starts to distract.
- Increased emotionality. It is hard for such a student to restrain his emotions, he reacts sharply to any changes in the environment.
- Features of temperament. Choleric and sanguine are less plodding than melancholic and phlegmatic.
In addition, bad behavior can be a child's way of protesting against the parents' reproaches and comments. If they say he is bad, the child begins to behave even worse.
Advice from a psychologist on what to do to correct children's behavior
According to psychologists, parents can influence their children's behavior at school. In order for the child to be attentive and obedient, it is necessary:
- Support it. Even if the teacher claims that he is the worst, for parents, he must remain the best. Otherwise, he may lose self-esteem, and to attract attention to himself, he will begin to make more jokes.
- Listen to the child. Perhaps he does not like school, teachers, classmates. In this case it is better to change the institution.
- You need to be a good example. If the boy sees constant quarrels in the family, he will transfer the same attitude to his classmates.
There is no need to convince a child to change hisbehavior. If something is preventing him from studying, his attitude towards the subject will not change until this reason disappears. Of course, you should not turn a blind eye to the teachers' comments. But you should not scold or humiliate your son. He should consider his parents an example, and not be afraid of them.