Causes of bad behavior

The child becomes the violator of the schooldiscipline gradually, so it is important to notice changes in his behavior on time. This can be the comments of teachers at the parents' meeting, that the kid is not attentive, does other things at the lesson, does not prepare homework. After the claims are presented, you must always talk with the child, otherwise he will feel unpunished.Bad behavior in school can be in boys and girls. Photo: Getty There are several reasons why a boy or girl can behave badly in school:

• Desire to be a leader. Courage, independence and disobedience are the main ways of expressing one's character.
• Lack of interest in learning. School items to the child are uninteresting, but that soon time passes, he starts to distract.
• Increased emotionality. It is hard for such a student to restrain his emotions, he reacts sharply to any changes in the environment.
• Features of temperament. Choleric and sanguine are less plodding than melancholic and phlegmatic.

In addition, bad behavior can be a kind of protest of a child against reproaches and remarks of parents. If they say that it is bad, the child begins to behave even worse.

Psychologist's advice on what to do to correct child behavior

According to psychologists, parents can influence the behavior of children in school. That the kid was attentive and obedient, it is necessary:

• Support it. Even if the teacher claims that he is the worst, for parents, he must remain the best. Otherwise, he may lose self-esteem, and to attract attention to himself, he will begin to make more jokes.
• Listen to the child. Perhaps he does not like school, teachers, classmates. In this case it is better to change the institution.
• You need to be a good example. If the boy sees constant quarrels in the family, he will transfer the same attitude to his classmates.

Do not convince the child to change their behavior. If something prevents him from learning, his attitude to the subject will not change until this reason disappears. Of course, do not turn a blind eye to the remarks of teachers. But you should not scold and humiliate your son. He should consider parents an example, and not be afraid of them.

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