Grandma Tips

Different views on education - this problem is relevant in almost every family. Young mothers of Chelyabinsk told Woman’s Day about parenting methods that their parents do not support.

You feed her wrong!

Anastasia Uroshnikova, 24 years old, managing a store, Tatiana's mother (7 months old)"Mom husband believes that we plan to freezea child since birth, as she bathed her daughter in a water temperature of 37 degrees. And both grandmothers still resent why at 7 months we refuse to feed our daughter borscht. They are surprised and convincing: “Well, you ate - and nothing!”Anastasia Uroshnikova and daughter Tatyana (7months) Photos: Anastasia Uroshnikova’s personal archiveMy mom is an amateur who gives her “forbidden” (forbidden products) granddaughter: a pickle, candy or even sausage. No arguments about the dangers of these products for the child's body do not work, so you have to monitor not only my daughter, but also her grandmother. "

You chill it!

Valeria Kachkaeva, 26 years old, administrator, Maria's mother (1 year 6 months)“Mary and a half years. We do not dive into the hole so far - it is scary. But running barefoot and in a bathing suit, swimming trunks in the snow. We started literally from 1–2 seconds with half a year. Grandfather does not mind, because he himself was engaged in winter swimming. But my grandmother does not support such experiments at all, she always says that she will chill the child. It seems to me that such categoricalness is due to fear and the lack of positive examples. ”

You do not help them!

Yana Kislyakova, 28 years old, dentist, mother of Caroline (5 years old) and Angelina (2 years 10 months)"I have been trying since childhood to teach my children toindependence. I have two daughters: one for 3 years, the other for 5 years. For example, I force them to dress themselves, without my help, despite the fact that while it is difficult. My mother does not like this approach, she always scolds me and says: “Help them, they are still quite small!” But I think that from this age children should learn to do everything on their own.

Grandson must be baptized!

Nina Galeeva, 23 years old, housewife, Yaroslav's mother (age 1 year)"Usually my parents do not interfere in the upbringingour Yaroslav. The only thing - they were hurt when my husband insisted that the child will have Muslim faith. Mom is still unhappy with this decision and, when her grandson grows up, plans to baptize him. I consider this a crazy idea, since religions are different, but God is one. ”Nina Galeeva and Yaroslav (1 year) Photo: Nina Galeeva personal archive

Baby need to pamper!

Arina Sazonova, 25 years old, hairdresser, Arseny's mother (age 2 years)"My husband and I believe that children are better not to indulgeand buy them something for some success and merit. The mother-in-law of a different opinion: he buys everything that Arseny wants, spoils much. Is always! I am glad that even though we don’t live together, a few hours apart - it saves. ”

Why don't you knock down the temperature!

Yana Aseeva, 27 years old, fitness trainer, Leonid's mom (age 1 year 2 months)“There are several reasons why we and our parents disagree, and they are against such methods in education:Yana Aseeva and Leonid (1 year 2 months) Photo: Yana Aseeva's personal archive

The fact that we constantly air the apartment, so we are cool enough, and the child almost always runs barefoot. They don't like it.

We do not feed the child meat.

Do not knock down the temperature.

The child can not be trusted educator!

Margarita Makarova, 27 years old, marketer, Vyacheslav's mother (age 3 years)"We want to give our Slavik to kindergarten, sohow development is going on there comprehensively and with specially trained people, and you need to communicate with your peers. My mother-in-law does not think so. Insists that we leave our son with her. How to convince her of the opposite - we do not understand. She stands her ground and says: “Do not you dare to hand over a child there, that I am not a grandmother, perhaps, can I not manage? I’m better than the Garden of Glory!

You do not punish her for nothing!

Alena Parshovets, 23 years old, manager, Milana's mother (age 1 year 4 months)“There are two moments when opinions on the approach to education for me and my parents are very different: Alena Parshovets and Milan (1 year 4 months) Photo: personal archive of Alena Parshovets First: I am for the fact that my daughter needs to talk delicately, calmly, kindly. I believe that it is necessary to bring up without assault and shouts. My parents have a different opinion: it is better to slap or scold once upon a time. Second: my mother forcefully puts the child on the pot. Docha sometimes cries and is afraid to sit on it. I prefer to accustom Milana to the pot in other ways: just explain and show where to go. ”