Different views on education - this problem is relevant in almost every family. Young mothers of Chelyabinsk told Woman’s Day about parenting methods that their parents do not support.

You feed her wrong!

Anastasia Uroshnikova, 24, store manager, mother of Tatyana (age 7 months)"Mom husband believes that we plan to freezea child since birth, as she bathed her daughter in a water temperature of 37 degrees. And both grandmothers still resent why at 7 months we refuse to feed our daughter borscht. They are surprised and convincing: “Well, you ate - and nothing!”Anastasia Uroshnikova and daughter Tatyana (7months) Photos: Anastasia Uroshnikova’s personal archiveMy mom is an amateur who gives her “forbidden” (forbidden products) granddaughter: a pickle, candy or even sausage. No arguments about the dangers of these products for the child's body do not work, so you have to monitor not only my daughter, but also her grandmother. "

You chill it!

Valeria Kachkaeva, 26 years old, administrator, mother of Maria (1 year 6 months)“Maria is one and a half years old.We don’t dive into the ice hole yet – it’s scary. But we run around barefoot and in a bathing suit, swimming trunks in the snow. We started with literally 1-2 seconds at six months. Grandpa doesn’t mind, since he himself did winter swimming in his youth. But grandma absolutely doesn’t support such experiments, she always says that we’ll catch a cold in the child. It seems to me that such categoricalness comes from fear and the lack of positive examples.”

You do not help them!

Yana Kislyakova, 28, dentist, mother of Karolina (5 years old) and Angelina (2 years 10 months)"I have been trying since childhood to teach my children toindependence. I have two daughters: one for 3 years, the other for 5 years. For example, I force them to dress themselves, without my help, despite the fact that while it is difficult. My mother does not like this approach, she always scolds me and says: “Help them, they are still quite small!” But I think that from this age children should learn to do everything on their own.

Grandson must be baptized!

Nina Galeeva, 23, housewife, mother of Yaroslav (age 1 year)"Usually my parents do not interfere in the upbringingour Yaroslav. The only thing - they were hurt when my husband insisted that the child will have Muslim faith. Mom is still unhappy with this decision and, when her grandson grows up, plans to baptize him. I consider this a crazy idea, since religions are different, but God is one. ”Nina Galeeva and Yaroslav (1 year) Photo: Nina Galeeva personal archive

Baby need to pamper!

Arina Sazonova, 25, hairdresser, mother of Arseniy (age 2)"My husband and I believe that children are better not to indulgeand buy them something for some success and merit. The mother-in-law of a different opinion: he buys everything that Arseny wants, spoils much. Is always! I am glad that even though we don’t live together, a few hours apart - it saves. ”

Why don't you bring down the temperature!

Yana Aseeva, 27, fitness trainer, mother of Leonid (age 1 year 2 months)“There are several reasons why we and our parents disagree, and they are against such methods in education:Yana Aseeva and Leonid (1 year 2 months) Photo: Yana Aseeva's personal archive

The fact that we constantly air the apartment, so we are cool enough, and the child almost always runs barefoot. They don't like it.

We do not feed the child meat.

Do not knock down the temperature.

The child can not be trusted educator!

Margarita Makarova, 27, marketer, mother of Vyacheslav (age 3)"We want to give our Slavik to kindergarten, sohow development is going on there comprehensively and with specially trained people, and you need to communicate with your peers. My mother-in-law does not think so. Insists that we leave our son with her. How to convince her of the opposite - we do not understand. She stands her ground and says: “Do not you dare to hand over a child there, that I am not a grandmother, perhaps, can I not manage? I’m better than the Garden of Glory!

You do not punish her for nothing!

Alena Parshovets, 23, manager, mother of Milana (age 1 year 4 months)“There are two points where my parents and I have very different opinions about the approach to education:Alena Parshovets and Milana (1 year 4 months)Photo:personal archive of Alena ParshovetsFirst: I am for the fact that you need to talk to your daughter delicately, calmly, kindly. I believe that you need to raise her without violence and shouting. My parents have a different opinion: it is better to spank her once on the bottom or scold her.Second: my mother forcibly puts her child on the potty. My daughter sometimes cries and is afraid to sit on it. I prefer to potty train Milana in other ways: simply explain and show where she needs to go."

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