It is mine!
Photo: www.yandex.ru Dots of socks lie in the apartment in the most inappropriate places, the shirts hang on chairs, backs of armchairs and a sofa, even on an exercise bike - so the dad designated his territory, showed that he is the master here. Mom's tubes and jars with cream stand in the bathroom in the right order, in the kitchen pans, plates and mugs should always be in place, because the kitchen is my mother's territory, here she is the hostess. Agree that there must be a place in the house where the owner is a child. 0-1,5 years old Psychologists believe that babies do not need their own room, just from time to time crumbs need to rest from the all-seeing mother's eye. The main thing: if you notice that during the game the kid started to turn away from you, put him in the crib, let him play with the rattle or his fingers a little, poke on his or her, or just lie down, smacking his nipple.
Photo: www.yandex.ru1,5-3 years Perhaps, to one in the room the kid will be still uncomfortable and scary, but the personal play zone is already necessary for him. The main thing: lay a warm carpet on the floor, put a small children's or air mattress on it (if the baby is tired, he can lie down and rest), put a small basket (or two) for toys, a small bright plastic table (with rounded corners) for drawing or molding of plasticine and high chair. Play and paint with the baby, and then collect the toys together and put them back in place.
Photo: www.yandex.ru3−5 years Now the baby needs his own territory, where he can be alone, do his important things. At this age, the child often says: "I'm big!", constantly repeats: "I myself!", his own room will help him to really grow up and learn to do something independently. The main thing: choose furniture and wallpaper for his room together with the baby - this will teach the child to consult, discuss, make decisions and be responsible for them (you will have to constantly look at the chosen wallpaper, use the furniture you bought).
Photo: www.yandex.ru5-9 years The child at this age plays a lot, actively moves, so if you did not equip him a room before, do it now. Let him invite friends here, play, read a book, watch cartoons, lie on the bed, think of something alone, feel sad, offended, or even angry with his parents. The main thing: before you enter the room to the child, you, dear parents, will have to learn how to knock and ask for permission. Why? Yes, because your baby is an independent person. And this means that it needs to be controlled less, it is necessary to learn to negotiate with him, he can have his own interests and secrets, which he does not want to share with you yet. You just say: "May I come to you?", And the child will understand that they respect him, trust him, they consider him. And he will begin (of course, not immediately, but gradually) to do the same.
Photo: www.yandex.ruIf you do not have the opportunity to allocate a separate room for a child, equip its territory, where there will necessarily be a bed, a desk and a bookshelf; buy a small tourist tent. In this "house" can "live" toys, books, pencils and plasticine; there you can build a city from a designer, chat with a friend, even lie down to rest if he is tired of games. The main thing is that this territory is in full possession of the child, because here he is a sovereign master, he disposes of it and is responsible for it. Consider this!
Photo: www.yandex.ru10−16 years The child psychologically separates from his parents, so he needs his own room like air. Here he is responsible for himself, decides what and when to do, retires to experience the first disappointments, think over and find a solution to the problem. And, most importantly, to become an adult. The main thing: do not impose your attention and care on the teenager, do not interfere in his personal affairs, do not pressure him, just sincerely, without condemning or giving assessments, be interested in his affairs and plans. If you decide to change something in the child's room (furniture, curtains, lamps, bedspread, even bed linen), ask the owner's opinion - he may not like your choice, so it is better to go to the store for a purchase together. Read more:
