1. You already do not have the energy that was in 20 years

Yes, you still remember your 20 years and those days whenwere able to stay late at parties or prepare for exams until midnight, and woke up in the morning with the feeling that they were ready to run the marathon. Of course, at the age of 30 your energy potential is slightly lower. But it normal.Photo: iStock / Gettyimages.ru

2. You are afraid of missing something important

One of the expected consequences whenin the family of the child, that you will stop going out: you have "lived your life," and the parties are over. However, you probably are not interested in jumping on bars in 30 years, but still want to get out of the house and communicate with people. You still like brunches in cafes, lunches or dinners in good restaurants ... But with children to lead a busy life it becomes difficult. And you start scrolling your tape: you nurse your child, long pack the strollers, bag with diapers and carry, sit in the car and try to catch up with your friends. Do not worry, Mummy, it's okay to miss your life. Give yourself time to be sad.

3. You will have to educate your children and take care of aging parents at the same time

"My son will be 10 when my mother turns70 years, while my older sister (who became a mother in 20) will already be 20-year-old children. She will finish raising children, by the time our mother needs additional support ... "This is not just the time for taking care of parents, it is also the financial costs that are borne by the family. And this is not the mathematics at all, as in 25 years, when you could spend your salary for dinner in a restaurant.

4. Are you happy that in your 20s you were just with yourself

Every woman can decide for herself when for herit is better to have children. For some, their 20 years are the best. First, there was time to think whether you really want children. Then you have time to look at others and understand how you want to raise your own children. In addition, you managed to get rid of the things that brought from childhood into adulthood. This does not mean that you have evolved to your 30 years. But by the age of 30 you have completely transformed. For someone, there is no better option. Just understand: for each there is an option that is the best for him.

5. You can not tell, gray hair and wrinkles on the forehead are caused by maternity or age

You start to see wrinkles and gray hair,who have never seen before, and are not sure where they came from. Welcome to raising children in middle age! You can return your life back to the age of 50 when the children leave to study, although, perhaps, you will look older than your years at that time. People who started children younger, said that they are happy that they will be engaged in the education of adolescents at the age of 40. But it's not a fact that they will also look better than everyone else.Photo: Getty Images

6. Do you want to have more time for making life-saving decisions?

In your 20, no one will tell you to hurry andto give birth to another child or "just finish it." Outsiders do not remind you that your eggs are dying and you need to find "him" and make a child. In your 20s there is a feeling that time is infinite. When you get close to 30, it already seems that the stages on the life path are crossed out at a frantic pace. When you are over 30, behind should be buying a home, looking for the cause of your life and a child - everyone is eager for this. Therefore, in 30 years, a lot of pressure begins.

7. Money and in 30 years cause concern

Money influences many of our decisions. This is also very personal. We postpone the birth of a child, because we want to become financially stable at first. But there is no guarantee that by deciding to become pregnant with stability, suddenly everything will not collapse and the dismissal and loss of income will not follow. When we are 20, we play life; when we are 30, we manage expectations. The truth is that having children is happiness and problems at any age. No matter how old you are, you can be a wonderful parent. It is important to create a space where women have a choice when to create a family - at 25, 35 or even 45 years. Another truth is that you are you and will always remain yourself regardless of age. You will never cease to have your own needs, desires and aspirations. At any age, you should always find the time and effort to develop yourself, even if you care about another person.

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