30 ways to get as close to the baby as possible

A moment of real intimacyPhoto: Getty Images1. Breastfeeding. At this time, the baby not only eats, he clings to you, feels your warmth, your smell, hears the beating of your heart. Watch the baby in the eyes when you feed him from the bottle. This will remind him that food and heat are connected with you. Do the baby massage. The kid will sing with delight! 4. Turn off your phone. Right now. Relatives, colleagues and friends will understand if you answer their call or message in a few hours. And you and your child will belong to each other at this time. Listen to the baby's heart beating. Do you remember with what impatience you waited for the opportunity to hear this sound during ultrasound? Now you can enjoy it whenever you want! 6. Look together in the mirror. At an early age, children do not yet understand that they are in reflection. But they like to look at human faces. If you look in the mirror together, he becomes more aware that he sees his own face. Sleep at one time with the baby. Just do not feel guilty if you fell asleep next to the baby at seven in the evening! The resting mother is a happy mother, and this is exactly what your son or daughter needs.Photo: Getty Images8. Do something pleasant for the husband. Whatever one may say, the child now takes up almost all of your time. To the spouse did not feel thrown, did not get angry (even unconsciously) at the baby, cook him something delicious, watch a movie together. So you show that your husband is very dear to you. Do not worry about the developmental stages of the child. Do not scour the Internet and look for the age at which the child should smile for the first time, roll over, crawl ... Everyone develops differently. And all too often looking into the future, you will miss the present. Take the baby in his arms, pressing "skin to the skin." Nine months you were a single whole, but now close physical contact is gone. Remind the child about him, pressing him to him: this, by the way, will help to equalize his breathing and heartbeat. React to his screams. This is especially important in the first three months: the child should know that you hear it and will always come to his aid. Do not think that by this you will spoil him! 12. Become a swaddler. If the child is swaddled correctly, he sleeps better. Enjoy the smell of your baby. Many admit that babies smell just magically. Unfortunately, there is no perfume with such a fragrance. But you can enjoy this smell absolutely for free.Mom's fun! Photo: Getty Images14. Kick the baby, lulling on your hands. Baby fell asleep unexpectedly, and you gently carry it into the crib? Stop for a minute and shake it on your hands. For these moments you will be bored when he grows up, so do not spare time. Dress up the baby at home. Admit it, you like to see your favorite child in a beautiful new thing? Do not be shy, arrange a home "defile", even if, except you, a new outfit of the child no one will see.16. Keep a diary of your baby. The first months of the child's life sweep quickly. In order not to forget the important points, start a special album: write down what happens to the baby, how it changes.17. Do not avoid plush toys. Children like to touch fluffy toys, taste them. Do not deprive them of this pleasure. Just do not forget to erase your child's toy friends. Read children's tales. Do not think that it's too early: children like to listen, as adults read to them. And if you still speak different voices, singling out each character, there will be no limit to the delight of your child! 19. Try to breathe freely during childish sobbing. All the children are crying. But if the mother is tense or upset, the baby is talking louder and longer. So first of all, calm down. Live on the schedule. For the child, rules and habits are important. So the better you stick to the schedule, the more relaxed and relaxed your child will be.Photo: Getty Images21. Arrange the outputs "Mom and I". Do you want adventure? Go to the zoo! Do you dream to relax? Look into the coffee shop around the corner. Exit together with the child will help to realize that the world is not limited to the cocoon of your family. Think of a kid's home nickname. This will be your little secret, unknown stranger. Make up your own playlist. Select five songs and sing along with them when playing with the child. The kid will quickly remember them and will happily meet their favorite music. View old photos. Looking for a similarity between parents and a child is so interesting! 25. If the child is learning to eat, do not think about the mess. Do not worry that the floor around the child and all his clothes are stained with mashed potatoes. Rejoice with the baby, who learns new smells, tastes and textures. Do not forget about nice jokes. It is necessary to stick out his tongue and move his eyebrows, as the child immediately starts to laugh.Photo: Getty Images27.Forget about perfect cleanliness. Every day you will have a choice: cleaning or cuddling on the couch with your child. We say: cuddling is more important than perfect cleanliness. 28. If you have problems, talk about it with your baby. He does not yet understand the meaning of all your words, but he likes to listen to your voice. And for you, this is an opportunity to talk, after which it will become easier. 29. Enjoy changing diapers. Yes, it is not very pleasant. But you can make this procedure fun by inventing a special song or funny names for poop. 30. Kiss your baby! In a few years, he will begin to be embarrassed by bright displays of affection, and you will no longer be able to hug or kiss him in public. But what is stopping you now? He wrinkles or smiles so delightfully when you kiss him!