1. Read and compose fairy tales about kindergarten
The easiest way to "get through" to yourlittle "I don't want to" - tell him a story about how Tigrynok, Mishutka or Slonok went to kindergarten for the first time, and how he felt uncomfortable and scared at first, and then made friends with children and kind teachers. Even better - act out this story with toys. And be sure to have a dialogue like: Bunny: Today is such a wonderful day! I'm going to kindergarten. They will feed me delicious magic porridge there, and then we will play on the edge of the forest with other forest animals! Teddy Bear (the child plays him): But I don't want to go to kindergarten, there ... And here the main thing is to pay attention to what the child is talking about. What exactly does he not like about kindergarten? And based on the specific problem, look for a way out, playing out situations. This method has helped more than one child to love kindergarten!
2. Give your child a favorite toy to take with them
Children, especially in nurseries, primary and secondarygroups, may need a home toy. Let it be a symbolic safe - the keeper of mother's love. Every morning, mother and baby can take a toy and, as it were, put some of her love into it for safekeeping, and the child can "use" it during the day. The child hugs this soft piece of home, and he becomes calmer and more comfortable. The baby feels more confident! Perhaps, at first, a favorite toy, a bag or a backpack with "secrets" in it will help with adaptation. And then friendship with the guys from the group will come and take him to a new emotional level.
3. Always praise the teacher
How can you love kindergarten if your parentscriticize the teacher in front of the child? After all, this person is with your baby all day long! And no matter what he is like, in your opinion, he should be the best for the child! Respect is the component of a good relationship between the baby and the teacher. Tell grandparents, for example, in the presence of your child, what a good kindergarten he now goes to, what wonderful teachers work there, what a big boy and “great boy” he is! Read on: