It is not by chance that the child is very nervous - look for the reason. Photo: Getty

Why did the child suddenly become very nervous

Babies become especially nervous at one year, from 2up to 3 years (crisis of "independence"), at 7 and later. Parents have heard about the teenage state, and remember it from their own experience. The reasons why a child has become very nervous are related to social, physiological and psychological factors.

The desire for independence, to separate from their parents, although the baby itself does not yet imagine itself without them.

Temperament. Choleric always achieve what they want (shouting, hysterics).

Fatigue. It is not advisable for babies to be overexcited.Their "stop button" doesn't work, so infants and children under 3 years old are protected from long noisy events, watching cartoons and wild parties with all their relatives and friends.

Breaking the schedule of the day.

Spoiled Parents are sometimes ready to give children all the toys, so long as they do not claim attention, care, time.

Lack of clear direction and unity between parents. Dad lets you play with a drill, mom takes it away. Or mom says "no" today and tomorrow, and "yes" the day after tomorrow.

Problems of a physiological nature.Neuroses are nothing new these days. Sometimes a child is very nervous due to illness (stuffy nose, teething), hormonal changes (teenagers), or developmental problems.

There is no need to shout at your son or daughter (although parents are not made of iron, the reaction is understandable). You need to give yourself some sedatives and adequately assess the situation.

The child is very nervous: what to do

If breakdowns occur regularly, you need tovisit a children's clinic. A pediatrician can detect problems that moms and dads won't notice. Sometimes a neurologist can help. If parents are embarrassed, it's worth thinking about the child - nervous offspring can be due to epilepsy, autism. You need to remember your responsibility to your children. But the reasons are also hidden in other things, which is what the solution to the problem depends on.

• They say heart to heart, show that they love their son and daughter. About puberty, first love talk to children in advance.
• We need to help them to know and develop themselves. Interest sections and moderate exercise will remove excess irritability.
• Watch the baby.Do the nervous "performances" begin in the middle of the square or at a shop window? They hug the little one and say that the purchase will be made later. Or not? They leave the child alone, but do not go far. He does not hear any curses or reassurances now anyway.
• You must be close to the children and always talk heart to heart.

And sometimes, when the child is constantly very nervous,what to do do not know caring and compassionate parents and grandmothers, you need to look at yourself. The words and deeds of moms and dads diverge, in the family there is not enough respect of adults for each other or for their "I"? Then you will have to unravel the ball from yourself…

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