What if the child is very nervous

The child is very nervous not by chance - look for the cause. Photo: Getty

Why did the child suddenly become very nervous

Especially nervous babies become annually, from 2up to 3 years (crisis of “independence”), at 7 and beyond. Parents have heard about the adolescent state, and they remember it by themselves. The reasons why a child has become very nervous are connected with social, physiological and psychological factors.

The desire for independence, to separate from their parents, although the baby itself does not yet imagine itself without them.

Temperament. Choleric always achieve what they want (shouting, hysterics).

Fatigue. Babies do not want overexcited. Their stop button does not work, so babies and children under 3 years old are shielded from long noisy events, watching cartoons and rambling holidays with all their relatives and friends.

Breaking the schedule of the day.

Spoiled Parents are sometimes ready to give children all the toys, so long as they do not claim attention, care, time.

The lack of a clear focus and unity of parents. Dad gives a drill to play, mom takes it. Or mom says today and tomorrow "no", and the day after tomorrow - "yes."

Problems of a physiological nature. Neuroses today surprise no one. It happens that the child is very nervous because of the disease (nose stuffed, teeth are cut), hormonal adjustment (adolescents), developmental problems.

No need to shout at the son or daughter (although the parents are not iron, you can understand the reaction). Need to instill a sedative and adequately assess the situation.

The child is very nervous: what to do

If breakdowns occur regularly, you need to visitin child consultation. A pediatrician can detect problems that moms and dads won't notice. Sometimes a neurologist helps. If parents are shy, it’s worth thinking about a child - nervous offspring can happen with epilepsy, autism. We must remember about our responsibility to children. But the reasons lie in the other, on which the resolution of the problem depends.

They say heart to heart, show that they love their son and daughter. About puberty, first love talk to children in advance.
We need to help them to know and develop themselves. Interest sections and moderate exercise will remove excess irritability.
Watch baby. Nervous "performances" begin in the middle of the square or at the storefront? They embrace the baby and say that the purchase will be made later. Not that? The child is left alone, but do not go far. He still does not hear now - neither curses nor solace.
You must be close to the children and always talk heart to heart.

And sometimes, when the child is constantly very nervous,what caring and compassionate parents and grandmothers do not know, you need to look at yourself. Words and deeds of moms and dads differ, do the families lack adult respect for each other or their “I”? Unravel the tangle then you have to ...