It is proved that little ones are capable ofto perceive, while still in the womb of the mother. The baby distinguishes the voices of mom and dad, responds to music, can even understand their native language - according to scientists, the ability to recognize speech is laid as early as the 30th week of pregnancy. And since he understands so much, it means that you can communicate with him! The methodology of this very communication was developed back in the 70s of the last century. They called it haptonomy - in Greek, it means "the law of touch".what is the haptonomyPhoto:GettyImagesIt is recommended to start “conversations” with an unborn child when it starts to move actively. First, you need to choose a time for communication: 15-20 minutes a day at the same time. Then you need to attract the baby’s attention: sing a song, tell a story, while patting the belly in time with your voice. They promise that the baby will begin to respond in a week - it will push exactly where you stroke it. Well, and then you can already talk to the future heir: tell what you will do together, how you are waiting for him and love him. It is recommended to involve the father in the “connection sessions”. Why? Simply to establish a strong emotional connection: this awakens the mother’s and father’s instincts in parents, and the child feels safe, even after leaving the mother’s womb. The goal is wonderful, to be sure. But some fans of haptonomy have gone even further. You have probably heard of mothers who read books to their babies in their wombs, let them listen to music, and start showing their newborns albums about art. All so that the child begins to develop as early as possible and from all sides: to perceive beauty, for example. So, it turns out that some teach their unborn child with the help of haptonomy... to count! Has the baby begun to respond to movements? It's time to study! "Touch the belly once and say: "one", - advise the apologists of intrauterine arithmetic. Then, accordingly, one, two in time with the patting. And so on. It is curious, of course. But such fanaticism causes bewilderment in us. Why? Why burden the baby with knowledge of this kind even before birth? Psychologists, by the way, also believe that such persistent stimulation of the child can, on the contrary, spoil your relationship with him. If you overdo it, the baby may experience stress - even before birth! And what do you think of the idea of ​​​​prenatal development of the child?

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