– Have you already bought everything the child needs?"Much remains of Margarita: cot, cot, changing table, commode, lulling swings, chaise lounges, riding-school, some toys for early development. All in perfect condition, so why change them? All these things store the energy of her sister, and now she will move to a new child. In this there is something. By the way, the whole and the cradle, which is attached between the parent's bed and a baby bed and swings like a pendulum. And in her grew already three: Margarita, my niece and the daughter of a close friend. By the way, the last two are Eve. Now one more person will sleep in it. But the stroller, unfortunately, was not preserved, and I still have not bought a new one. Today, there is such a big choice that their eyes run out. It seems I know exactly what I want, but it seems: there is something missing in one, in another something is not like. I'm a picky mother, and I also admit that the search itself gives pleasure. Before delivery is still a couple of weeks, so I stretch the pleasure, do not want to rush to buy. In general, I enjoy my current state. I do not know if I will ever be pregnant. I do not renounce, of course, how God will say, but in principle, I do not plan more children. Always dreamed of three, as in principle, and develops. And Ilan's husband, when they first met, said that he wanted a son and no one else. "Well, dreams are dreams, and life itself will dispose of", - I thought then to myself. Now the husband on the question, he would like the kids yet, answers: "No, two for me - the ideal option." His parents also have two: he and the elder sister. And in my family only me and my brother.
Photo: Sergey Birka-Jasmine, reveal the secret to whom you are waiting: a boy or a girl.
- I want to keep it a secret.No one in the family knows the sex of the baby yet. This is a surprise, first of all, for my husband. When I was pregnant with Margarita, Ilan went with me to the ultrasound, and during one of them the doctor said, "Expect a girl." Thus, he deprived me of the chance to keep it a secret. Now my husband also went with me to the ultrasound, but I warned the doctor, asked him not to tell me anything about the sex. And all this time I myself stubbornly fooled Ilan, saying one thing after another. In the end, he decided not to ask unnecessary questions. He is just waiting. - Will your husband be present at the birth?
– I believe that the mystery of the birth of a child is not entirelya suitable sight for men. Their nerves may not be able to withstand it (smiles). We women think that men are so strong, they can endure everything. This is all true, of course, but childbirth is too traumatic a process for them, it seems to me. So there is no need to be in the room with me, it is better to be nearby, behind the wall, like last time, I feel much calmer that way. – Was the pregnancy easy?
- First I experienced all the delightstoxicosis: terrible weakness, headaches, and how my taste preferences changed... I dreamed of sauerkraut and cucumbers day and night. I'm not kidding! It's so strange, I never felt anything like this with my previous children. With Margarita, I wore heels, danced, and sang until the eighth month. And then such mood swings! As my doctor says, no two pregnancies are the same. I consoled myself with the thought that I had to survive this. And in the fifth month, everything returned to normal. - Did your husband suffer from your mood swings?
- To him and to this day, it happens, gets. Sometimes, I confess, I break the stick. But always I apologize for the fact that I could not restrain myself, I explain my actions with a surge of hormones, I ask to be patient for the sake of our children (laughs). Ilan has already got used to it and holds on well, for which he is very grateful.