Young mothers are all a bit paranoid. Or not even a little bit. They are afraid that the baby is cold, they worry that it is hot, they wear their underclothes ten times and boil their nipples. They say it is true that it is up to the third child. There, even if the elder eats cat food from the floor, it is the cat’s concern. But when a firstborn appears, some paranoia is normal.A photo: GettyImagesThat also thought one of the inhabitants of the "mother" forum Mamsnet. She published an instruction, which she prepared especially for her visitors. Gained 13 points.1. Wash your hands with soap and water before touching the baby. Do not come if you just had something to get sick. Do not kiss the child on the lips (only on the top of the head) .4. Do not touch the child’s mouth at all. If you came to cuddle the baby, be prepared for the fact that you will be asked to help with something (for example, to tidy up) .6. Do not shake the child. If you smoke, you will have to not only wash your hands, but also change clothes before you take the child in your arms. Do not come without an invitation or without warning about the visit.9. No flash photos.10. Please respect the wishes of mom and dad about how to handle the baby. Do not post photos or posts about the kid on the social network.12. If the child falls asleep, it should be put in a crib or basket. 13. Feeding is personal. None of the outsiders should be near.A photo: GettyImages Like nothing supernatural. In our opinion, this set of rules is ordinary politeness. Although there is no need for the educated person to voice them: he will not grab the baby with dirty hands or kiss the stranger's child on the lips. Not to mention putting photos on public display is a violation of personal integrity. And to help my mother around the house is a holy thing. It is unlikely that the guest will be asked to do a general cleaning. It will be enough just to wash the dishes, for example, to significantly ease a woman’s life. But it didn’t seem so to the inhabitants of the forum. They just hunted down a young mom. "Are you serious? It is unlikely that your house will be a lot of guests. And what nonsense with the help of housework? No, I do not believe that this is all true, ”we quote the softest comments on the instructions. It got to the point that the post mom decided to remove: too much negativity spilled on her head. Do you think that a young mother demands too much?

• Very little. I would also like guests to follow my rules
• Whose house is the rule. Do not like it - you can not come
• It seems all right, but somehow too hard. You can simply ask the person to stop if he does something wrong
• Exposing conditions to guests is wrong. If you don’t like the way they behave, why call?

Voted: 169A do you think young mother demands too much?

• Very little. I would also like guests to follow my rules37.3%
• Whose house is the rule. Do not like it - you can not come41.4%
• It seems all right, but somehow too hard. You can simply ask the person to stop if he is doing something wrong then 12.4%
• Exposing conditions to guests is wrong. If you don’t like the way they behave, why call? 8.9%

Voted: 169

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