Mama Timati criticized the Soviet education

On Timati’s mom's page, many go to bothencyclopedia on raising children and for everyday advice. Simona Yakovlevna willingly shares both. Along the way, telling (and showing) how the daughter of her starry son is growing up - the three-year-old Alice lives with her grandmother. Now in the microblogging Simone Yakovlevna with might and main there is a discussion about how strict the upbringing should be. Allow the child to scream and run? Make you sit quietly and calmly? Alice's grandmother is sure: to allow.Photo:@simona280“We are all, one way or another, a product of Soviet upbringing. We come from a place where uniformity was valued… Where any child who went beyond the generally accepted norm was considered a poorly brought up upstart,” writes Simona Yunusova. In her opinion, this approach to child development leads to the fact that a generation of not people is growing up, but a kind of “gray mass, deprived of the desire to fantasize, think, dream.” And from here it is one step to deviant behavior, bad habits and even a tendency to criminal acts. “Why? It's simple. The child was not heard in childhood. And every person requires attention, and he begins to look for it by any means necessary,” Simona believes. In her opinion, if a child has failed to prove his significance and importance to his parents, he will begin to assert himself among his peers. Strangely enough, Simona was prompted to think like this by the educational classes for children that Alisa attends. “A hotel. Grandmothers with children. We are waiting for the classes to start. The children are running around like crazy. You can hear from all sides: “Don’t scream! Don’t run! Look, the girl is sitting quietly, and you? Everyone is looking at you, I’m ashamed!!! I’ll call my parents today, and you know what will happen!” the grandmother describes the situation. Intimidation, jerking – all the traditions of authoritarian education in the best possible form. According to Simona Yakovlevna, it is impossible to raise a personality in this way. After all, the child is deprived of the opportunity to express himself: “You can’t run, but how can you meet others? You can’t shout, but how can you show that I am here?” Hello, hatred of grandma, hello, fear of parents and fear of standing out from the crowd, because they will scold you for it. True, there is also a flip side to the coin. Children who stand on their ears in public places and bother everyone are really ill-mannered. So now in the comments they are busy looking for a balance between freedom of behavior and the boundaries of decency for a child.