A photo: Getty Images "As a rule, the first" no "to my mother has to say when the child turns six months old, - Elena says. - This is exactly the age when the baby's teeth are chopped, and he starts biting his chest. To endure this stoically is a big mistake! Similarly, one should not endure when in the first inept attempts to caress mother and father, the child painfully hits his parents on the cheeks, not knowing what force should be touched. "What should I do? Remember that the reason for biting is not malignancy and malicious intent, but the first teeth. There are several options for a reaction to a bite. The most common - this is when the mother of sharp pain and surprise almost involuntarily slaps the baby on the priest. Many psychologists - Serz's spouses, for example - believe that there is nothing more innocuous for the child than a sincere parental spank, if it is not built into the system. And although some children from the first (involuntary) slap all understand and bite cease, this is not the best way to cope with the problem. There are also such kids who are frightened and cry inconsolably, not understanding, why it began to hurt them. And the bite again. It is better to take the breast out of the baby's mouth and say in a stern tone: "You can not bite!" The child will understand that if he continues in the same spirit, he will lose the most important and delicious. Also with slaps from the excess of feelings in the mother's face. It is necessary to show the baby how to iron and pronounce this word aloud. If you are consistent, he will understand, and this skill, how to properly caress, will be very useful to him in the big world of the sandbox. "

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