Father and daughter

A photo: GettyImagesThe link between the child and the father is formed already in the early childhood. To baby from the cradle felt right and the best, dad must be sure: - Loving my mother's daughter. And constantly demonstrate this with the appropriate signs of attention: giving gifts to his wife, telling her compliments, helping with solving domestic issues, caring and taking care. Then the grown-up girl will look for such a positive hero in her companions .- To say compliments to my daughter: "This color of a dress is very good for you, it emphasizes your blue eyes" or "You quickly grasp new information, it's very healthy." This will help my daughter grow up confident in her own abilities and attractiveness. - Refrain from punishment. Never hit or yell at a girl, it will necessarily turn her into problems with men in adult life. - Be her advocate in any situation and at any age. - Let her be herself. I like playing football, not dolls - excellent, jumping on a trampoline, and not drawing - great. Do not shake it, guarding it like a porcelain figurine, do not limit its natural activity only because "the girls do not behave themselves".

Dad and son

Photo: Getty.comHave you heard this saying: "You were born a boy, but you never became a man?" So it is about the fact that actions worthy of a real man, and a masculine character can only be brought up by his own positive example. Dad must: - Respect for the family and others. - Be able to pacify your anger and make only constructive remarks. - Be firm in their decisions, fair and friendly towards their son. - Find time for games, shared hobbies and calm conversations. - No matter what, believe in your child and always take his side in conflict situations. - To teach your son not to be afraid to make mistakes, to defend his opinion and be responsible for him. - Allowing the boy to make his own choice, this will help the development of independence in the child. Arrange competitions: who will tighten the most nuts in five minutes, who will win a game of checkers, who will push out more times, whose goal will get fewer balls, whose knot will be stronger. The child will be pleased to win once against the dad, this will greatly increase his self-esteem. - Allow the son to show emotions. Do not scold him for crying and showing anger. Just teach him how to control his emotions by example.A photo: GettyImagesThe formation of the self-esteem in the child is influenced more by the position of the father than the rest, since he spends less time with his mother than with him, so the evaluation of the child's actions is more significant. Also striking is the fact that children, whose development father played an active role, grow more intelligent and successful compared to their peers from single-parent families. The important role of the father in raising children was told by Larisa Surkova, counseling psychologist, mother of five children and author psychological bestsellers:In psychology, the father is self-confidence forchild, his support and safety. The daddy is necessary to the child even before a birth. All the rest of the time he is an example for imitation. The father creates the image of a man, and the child takes it. Therefore, each father is responsible for who his son will look like and what kind of husband he will look for his daughter. Parents do not need children 24 hours a day. Suffice it 30 minutes a day to talk heart to heart, hugs and effectively spent the weekend, and after years your child will certainly say thank you for it.

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