If you are reading this article, it means that at least oncein life, the financial issue has stood in the way of your desires, clipped the wings of your dreams of getting this or that material benefit, in other words, ruined your life and ruined your plans. Calm down, because you are not alone. Believe me, most of the successful people today, both from your close circle and those who flicker on the pages of glossy magazines and on TV, did not find their way to financial well-being right away - it did not fall from heaven as blessed manna and did not appear with the wave of a magic wand. No, the answer to the question of how to attract money to yourself lies deep in the depths of our subconscious. To formulate it correctly, you need to muster up the courage and honestly admit to yourself: “I want to have money, I envy those who have it, but I do not know how to love it.” It is the last word that is key in this case. But love is a creative force. Yes, in order to achieve a certain level of financial freedom, so that when you think about money, the question arises not of where to get it, but where else to spend it, you need to change your attitude towards these coveted pieces of paper. It is quite possible to learn the right attitude towards money. In some cases, it is complexes, some internal barriers or attitudes received from childhood that prevent you from attracting them. Remember how your family treated finances. Was there never enough money? Or was it spent in excess, like candy wrappers? Did your parents often repeat that money is evil, but sighed enviously if their neighbors bought another foreign car? Yes, the attitude towards money, like the worldview of any person, grows out of childhood. Therefore, let's break stereotypes that have lost their relevance and meaning in our days.
Do not be afraid to love money and change yourself
Remember the most important thing:all people have enough opportunities to have more finances in their lives. To begin with, you need to discard the clichés - "there is no such thing as too much money", "it only brings trouble", "money is not happiness". Do not think badly of them, stop being ashamed of your love for them, correctly assess the importance of finances in your life. Try to draw parallels between the attitude to a loved one with whom you are going to spend a long time together, and the opinion about money, without which a normal life is impossible in principle. Trying to attract a man, you will not speak badly of him or think that his appearance next to you will lead to troubles? Therefore, you should not treat money negatively, with disdain, underestimate its role as a qualitative component of modern life. Do you consider yourself worthy of your beloved man? So treat money in about the same way - use the principle "I have everything to become financially free." In order for the problem of lack of funds to lose its relevance, a person's consciousness must be in agreement with his subconscious. It's like the mind and heart - one is unthinkable without the other. There is one more thing: money is not a goal, but a means to achieve it. Do not think about financial resources - ask yourself how exactly your life will change if you have more of them. By specifying your desires, it will become clear how much money is needed to implement your boldest plans. Draw or make a collage of what you would like to buy for money. This move turns the energy of fruitless expectations into the energy of real goals and opportunities. It will also be useful to look at your surroundings and determine the contingent of people with whom you communicate mainly. It is their opinion, outlook on life, behavioral characteristics that affect your worldview at the moment. If those around you have not been particularly successful in life, and you do not stand out against their background with an even weaker financial situation, then where will the stimulating elements for attracting money come from? This state of affairs means that it is time to look for opportunities to expand your social circle, find new, more successful, behavioral models that can change your perception of life. Refer to the biographies of people who have achieved wealth and prosperity. Information about the success of the rich and famous will help create a new worldview, in which other, more correct, attitudes and incentives for attracting money will appear.
Away from the negative
We will talk about unpleasant situations related toloss of funds. There are probably no people who have not faced such sad circumstances at least once in their life. An unsuccessful investment of funds, a banal loss of them, theft, unpaid work or an order may happen. No matter how deeply the negativity from these unpleasant events has settled in the brain, pull them out, relive them again, but do not feel sorry for yourself and complain about fate, but rethink them as a useful and important experience. Analyze why this happened, how to prevent this in the future. Let the negative events of the past play into the hands of your future achievements on the path to financial well-being. It would be good to protect yourself, if possible, from people complaining about the eternal lack of money. This is also negativity, and someone else's and completely unnecessary for you. It is better to listen to those who recently happily got rich, received an inheritance or a salary increase. And do not be shy yourself if you found a financial opportunity for a good vacation, buying a car or housing. Answer the envious questions of the curious with dignity. This will send a powerful energetic message to the universe, inform the world about your inner, spiritual readiness to become rich. Frequently attending all kinds of seminars on the topic of attracting money into a person's life can also bring certain benefits. Their participants are offered a kind of auto-training for home use, which includes phrases like: "I had, have and always will have free finances", "My life is illuminated by abundance", "My goals are worthy of generosity", "I am rich spiritually and materially", "I have as much money as I want", etc. These are not stupid and funny phrases - they are a kind of key to rethinking the attitude towards money, as if reprogramming a person, renewing his potential and making him believe that financial wealth is the only possible existence for him.
We attract money "in defiance" of complexes
Try to express your own wordsassociative thoughts that arise when you hear the word "money". Write down everything: negative and positive phrases or popular expressions that come to mind that are related to your personal feelings. For example, "Honesty is a synonym for poverty", "Money does not make a person happy", "Money only brings troubles" - these are phrases with the wrong emotional coloring. You need to find antipodes for them like: "A truly rich person is noble", "Money gives peace and serenity", "Troubles do not come from money, but from a lack of intelligence". Mentally pronounce these phrases, alternating one pair with another. You need to really believe in what they mean. These new attitudes should firmly enter your consciousness, forming in it the correct perception and understanding of the concept of money, finance, resources. Try to avoid the particle "not" in relation to your expectations, capabilities and personal qualities, remove it from the expressions "I don't know how to make money", "I am not entitled to a bonus", "I am not a valuable employee". Now the resulting phrases have acquired a completely opposite meaning, they have a subtext of success and confidence. Do not forget to pronounce them as often as necessary for them to firmly take root in your consciousness. Try to take such exercises seriously to achieve maximum effect.
About the benefits of dreams
In a calm, comfortable environment, being, of course, alone with yourself, turn on your imagination and dream. For example, about:
- their childhood desires;
- the one that you want the most;
- an ideal life;
- the future five or ten years later;
- desired work;
- what would you do if you were rich and so on.
You can dream about anything, the only condition is— there should be a material subtext in thoughts. This is how positive and objective desires are born. In everyday life, try to pamper yourself with beautiful, high-quality things, be it clothes, shoes or bedding. Bring comfort into your life, indulge in sybaritism sometimes — this attracts success. Do not spare money for yourself and for your own benefit, because large bills love those who part with them easily, enjoying them at the same time. Never envy other people. Thoughts that someone is luckier than you are unacceptable for a successful person. Remember that greed and envy pollute the mind with negativity.
Believe in yourself and your desires
There is no need to be afraid of change - it is inevitablepath to success. Changing a profession or type of activity very often has a positive effect on financial well-being. According to foreign scientists, the fair half of humanity is able to change jobs absolutely without consequences for themselves with a frequency of once every five years. Express your desire to become richer in very specific phrases: “I want to earn N-th amount per month” or “By such-and-such a date I will have a new car of such-and-such a brand”. Vague formulations are unacceptable - they deprive confidence, give rise to doubts. A clearly meaningful and just as distinctly expressed desire in words is much easier to fulfill. Try to figure out what exactly you want, do not look back at other people's opinions. Remember, in order for money to find you, only your own desires, dreams and goals should guide this process. Wealth never comes to cowards, weak-willed persons, lazy people and people with false ideas about money. Those who do not see a clear goal in front of them cannot move forward. In the process of achieving financial well-being, motivation and a system of incentives are of great importance. Look for them, and this will help ease the path to money. But let your thoughts remain pure, and having achieved what you want, be merciful - unscrupulousness, meanness and the desire to "step over corpses" may add money, but they will definitely not bring happiness. The universal mind gives everyone according to their intelligence, abilities and merits. Do not disappoint the world, and it will certainly surprise you! We advise you to read: